Painful sex in men

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Avatar f tn Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. During p-v sex, most men use an “in-out” motion that feels great for them, instead of the circular grinding motion that will stimulate the clitoris. So how about trading off once in awhile? Him first; then you—or vice-versa? Have you asked yourself why your husband is only concerned with his pleasure? Is this OK with you?
Avatar m tn I am stressed out. First off I am a male in a gay relationship. Last week, I engaged in anal sex unprotected with my partner. It was a night of drinking and he wasn't clean and we didn't shower nor did he douche. After engaging in anal sex for about 10-15 minutes I was unable to finish due to being slightly intoxicated. The next day, in the late afternoon I started getting a slight painful urination. Which is about 12-18 hours after incident.
Avatar n tn Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. During p-v sex, most men use an “in-out” motion that feels great for them, instead of the circular grinding motion that will stimulate the clitoris. So how about trading off once in awhile? Him first; then you—or vice-versa Your other question is in regards to the Nuvaring.
Avatar n tn Does he say he is hitting anything in your vagina that is scratchy? Sometimes guys hit the strings of the IUD, for example. One woman who wrote in, had some genital warts that were scratchy. (Sorry, I'm just trying to put out examples.) Do you have a lot of sex without lube? Do you shave your lady area? (The hairs growing in can be bristly.
1713674 tn?1308576562 s problem, she might want to use the cream for general purposes, and maybe this would also rekindle her interest in sex. Be sympathetic, nothing is a turn-off like painful sex. If that is it, however, she might be convinced to try some solutions rather than give up on sex entirely.
Avatar f tn My fiance don't cook but would if I asked. But he cleans when he has time (he works ALOT) but is also very understanding if I'm just not feeling up to it. My only complaint is he is having a hard time dealing with the decline in our sex life (it's extremely painful every time we do it ever since becoming pregnant) but I still try to do it as much as I can stand or do other stuff to fulfill his needs.
Avatar f tn I will be 26 weeks tomorrow and it has become to painful to have sex...apparently. Used to be able to handle laying on my side but now even that is uncomfortable and my husband gets so frustrated. Therefore I get upset and and a fight breaks out, or that was the case today ( which I feel is incredibly stupid to get mad over sex when the situation is out of my hand. Right??). Is anybody else going thru this or have any advice as far as getting my husband to understand.
Avatar n tn Would the fact that it was initially painful (almost like I'd burned part of my palate) be consistent with the primary chancre? Over the last three days the pain has receded a lot, but there is still a center that remains tender, but not sore - it is definitely healing. Everything I've read suggests that this is not consistent with syphilis.
Avatar f tn Although if you think about it, do gay men have a significantly higher rate of rectal cancer than straight men? If anal sex and rectal cancer were related you would see at HUGE leap. If you are one of the many woman who have always found it difficult to orgasm from vaginal sex, I don't think it's surprising/worrisome that anal sex gives you more powerful orgasms. Anal sex puts pressure on different parts of the vagina that may be more sexually stimulating that vaginal sex alone.
Avatar f tn Have your dr tell him you are on bed rest and sex right now isn't safe for you or the baby
Avatar f tn hello. my boyfriend discovered a painful lump in his armpit last night that has me deeply concerned. he is 23 years old and has not been sick or ill for the past few months. the lump is solid but moveable; and approximately the size of a penny. also there is quite a bit of drainage. he wants me to help him drain it (which i don't mind) but i'm anxious to do so. i don't want to make it worse, or spread the infection.
Avatar n tn I've heard (and read) that some can. I'm reasonably certain that some can't. Sometime around 45-50 years old the level of testosterone in the blood starts to decrease. By the time a man is 90 it is likely his testerone level is so low that he not only can't get enough of an erection to masturbate but he loses interest in sex and doesn't feel the need to.
Avatar n tn My boyfriend and I had sex last night, and everything was going fine, and when it was time for him to go, he said that when he took it out he felt a sharp pain down his shaft, and then it felt like he couldnt get the fluid out. It did come out, but he said it felt uncomfortable and not pleasurable at all like it usually does. This is the first time it's ever happened.
Avatar n tn I don't know about adultury, but men certainly do it, I can't see any harm in it at all, better that than cheating, looking at porn or getting lap dnaces at strip clubs.
Avatar n tn You can get a bacterial infection from having sex with someone who has one or just from having poor hygiene in general. What type of bacterial infection do you mean?
Avatar f tn I'm 32 weeks. I have SPD pain in my pubic bone and sex hurts at first but I still try to have it a few times a week for his sake because we will be induced in 6 weeks and I know when baby comes sex is off for almost two months :/ so I feel your pain. its hard but try doggy or spooning. seems to be the only way that's not painful now.
Avatar m tn Is it possible to get the HPV strains that cause anus and penis cancer as well as genital warts from receipt of oral sex? is there any screening for HPV in men? and is HPV removed regardless from the body over time by the immune system? replies appreciated.
Avatar m tn i am a guy. but i there's a small lump in my right areola(??) sometimes it's painful when touch. do men get breast cancer? ... will the lump eventually disappear or need to be surgically removed. i appreciate any professional opinions.
Avatar m tn I am hoping to get a clear explanation on the stages of genital herpes in men. I have checked virtually every source on the internet for a detailed answer to the stages/manifestation of an initial genital herpes outbreak in men and it seems like there are some gaps. I have been with a HSV+ woman for 4 months and I am constantly worried that I may become infected. We have always used a condom during sex but I know that does not entirely protect me from contracting the virus.
Avatar n tn what are the first symptoms in men and when do they show after being infected?Few days, weeks,months?
Avatar n tn While many women enjoy p-v sex, for at least 40-50% of them, it usually doesn’t result in orgasm. Why? Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. I think you and your wife are putting way too much pressure on your poor penis to be perfect.
741741 tn?1294284010 I'm sorry for your loss. I know you are mad I would probably be too. When I had my last m/c in sept my dh was crying in the hosp asking me what he can do for me and I said just love me like you always have. From that moment on he was a changed man a piece of him died that day. I didnt' see the affects our m/c had on him because he didn't let me. In his mind he thought one of us had to be strong but in fact in reality he was the weaker one and I refused to see that.