painful sex after birth

what does it mean when sex hurts after a period of time ? I am on birth control , I Don't take any other medications , I don't have any infections and I've done it with this person multiple times . Am I. Just not used to his size ?

Has anyone not waited the full 6 weeks after birth to have sex? If you didnt wait did it cause any problems for you?

We never had this problem before until after we had our son, however i didnt have a vaginal birth. What could be causing this problem?

So how long do you wait after giving birth to have sex and does it hurt?

Everyone heals at different rates and some have different experiences during child birth which can lead to quicker or slower recovery. That is why it's recommended to wait until after your six week appointment. Having sex before your fully healed can cause all sorts of complications like tearing and infections. Another reason for waiting until your six week check up is so you can get back on birth control before having sex. You're very fertile right after birth.

m fine but right after my finace and I have sex and I go to the bathroom I have very, very painful urination. It feels like I have paper cuts. And we don't use protection because I'm on birth control so the only time I have very painful urination after sex is when he ejaculates inside me. I recently found out I had chlamydia and I took the pills and shot for that and got the test results that said everything was fine and I came back negative and my fiance also took the pills for it.

How long did u ladies wait until you had sex again after a vaginal birth ? How do you know yor stitches have healed ? Even though my bleeding has stopped how do I know it's ok ?

Its perfectly normal and will go away after birth. I find it easier to have sex with a lot of foreplay and going slow.

I had sex for the first time in four months since falling pregnant with my fiance last night. I really wanted to please him and I missed the feeling seeing as it had been that long since we last did it. I felt lubricated but there was still that little bit of tension when he entered and it made me feel uncomfortable. I felt bad coz I asked him to stop after a few minutes. I was worried he might think I'm not into him anymore or that I'm thinking of other things while we're doing it.

For mommies that already have another little one, how is sex after the baby? I'm worried that it will be different, or hurt? How is it the first time?

I am so terrified of how sex will feel after you give birth , I'm currently 2 weeks postpartum & dredging the day when doctor gives us the okay. What does it feel like ??!

And a personal one but I are so curious!!! How do your lady bits go after birth? How long would you wait till having sex after bith? When does it go back to normal afterwards if it ever does? Does it change how your partner feels about sex? Do you lose your sex drive ? Some are person questions but ill never know the answers unless I ask ! Thank you ladies!

It always happens the day after my boyfriend and I have sex. The next day or even up to a week after I have these harsh menstral like cramps. They really hurt, and its not around the time of my period, but its super annoying and really painful. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for 4 years and I almost always have cramps, I would have figured they would have eased up eventually??

I'm a FTM, and wanted to know how soon after you mamas gave birth were you having intercourse again? I'm already assuming most will be after the six wk check up. Comments/stories/suggestions welcome!!

Haha yeah me too. I had zero libido during pregnancy and got it back right after giving birth but sex was painful for a long time. Very frustrating. I only had two months of enjoyable sex before I got pregnant again and have no libido again. I feel your pain lol.

It's definitely different but not unpleasantly so. The first time (or three) may be a bit tight or painful if you got stiches because the skin needs to stretch again so use lots of lube. I was the rare case that healed incorrectly and I have a 1/2 inch skin tag-like thing that caused me pain during sex for the first 6 months after. But that's uncommon. And now that I know I can be prepared and get it fixed this time if necessary.

Sex hurt me for a while after I had my son, I couldn't fully enjoy it until like 6 or 7 months after I had him. I did have stitches, healed up nicely nothing was wrong but it was still painful..

Took 3 weeks for bleeding to stop but I wore a panty liner for a couple more weeks as the bleeding would randomly come back one day and then be gone the next. Tried sex at 8 weeks (I had 6 stitches) and it was super painful. Tried again at 12 weeks and it was bearable. But it wasn't pain free for another couple of months. I think it just was because of the way I tore.

Me and my boyfriend usually have sex without a condom because I am on birth control, but i never let him ejaculate in me. He pulls out about 10 minutes before hes going to. We are mostly rough during sex. The last few times my vagina swelled up instantly after we finished and it looks almost like two small balloons and is painful when I touch it. The swelling usually goes down after a day or 2. Do I have something? help!!!!

ve seen a doctor and they suggested birth control but my family tries to stick to the catholic faith with that topic. My mom was put on birth control not long after that due to an extremely heavy flow. I want to be on birth control for the same reason she is (a better cycle) but she is convinced I will have sex. Any advice or ideas to help?

Question Laddies , how long did you wait to have sex again after having your baby ?

Painful sex after birth

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