overcome fear marriage

i never had sex with any body, I started masturbation from 17 age, from that day i masturbating daily twice, 2 to 3 years back i abl to do 2 times per week now i able to do only twice a month. now i feeling very bad what i did, i am going to marry in 6 months as per my mother saying i am avoiding marriage because, i think i not able satisfy my wife daily, disturbed too much, some times i loose memory, no concentration on my work. & feel what peoples thinking on me. i feel bad.

Agreed. But some of these fears can be overcome. Puppies and chicks tend to be fast moving. Find the right kind of puppy at a pound or store, and I bet his response will be different.

My marriage has fallen apart over sex. I think the only reason we're still together is beause we have two kids. But I love my husband, I find him very physically attractive and love the idea of having sex with him, but when it comes down to actually doing it- I don't know what happens, it's like this wall comes up around me and I just want to crawl into a hole and hide.

t able to stop thinking,Really I worrying about this disorder,my feature life,Marriage,Family(still i not share this things with my parents also).Now, i started to go YOGA. To Overcome this.I feal very alone(Helpless).Is this will cure or not?Now what i want to do...Pls guide me.

Hi! If you were my patient, I would advise you that you are not alone in your fears, and many marriages take years to consumate. I would refer you to a counselor and develop a team of providers who could work closely with you and your husband to help work through your issues. Many women who are afraid have a history of trauma or abuse in their past. Others are just very anxious.

So, this type of problem make an issue after some time so as soon as possible you go for the eye care specialist. I hope your problem overcome early.

I am male 46 years old with severe health anxiety since 12 years. Since childhood I have been a worrier, very sensitive & fearful. I struggle with unemployment after marriage & HIV fear for 2 years. Since last 12 years I have obsessing about heart related fear, heart attack, heart disease, arrhythmia, angina etc. Time to time I was being occupied & living with fear that, something happened to my heart.

Would I be able to love her as much in the future. Since this is arrange marriage and we are leaving far from each other, this fear of unknown is really disturbing me. I feel like I will end up ruining her life because of my thinking and over analyzing things.

If your worrying about getting a divorce maybe you should wait longer to get married so you know its right? Having a baby doesn't mean you have to rush into marriage...just my opinion. Definitely take some premarital counciling.

I had a traumatic experience when I was a young child which left me with the fear of uncontrolled bleeding. I have attempted to overcome this fear through therapy and work in medical and dental offices. However, it returns to paralyze me at times. I need a molar extracted due to an abcess and the fear of bleeding has returned. I have had extractions in the past and obviously I survived but the anxiety continues to be huge.

Marriage talks seem on the verge of casting you into a deep depression, with a variety of predictable symptoms. I think a starting point is to slow down or stop those talks, for now.

However, to maintain his peace and sobriety, my husband has emotionally detached from me and our marriage. For the first time in his life, my husband has to deal with his emotions and problems without self-medicating. While I would love to get closer to him, he cannot deal with emotional intimacy at this present time. It has been well over a year and we do not have sex. He fears loosing himself to drugs and does not want to go back to that life ever again.

I have no real answers to tell you, I just want you to remember what a precious person you are and if you are in a relationship with a mate who truly loves you, any obstacle can be overcome. After 32 years of marriage, my health went downhill unbelievably fast. Unexpected diseases that had debilitating effects on my life. My husband has stood by me through all of the surgeries, dr. appointments, medications.

I am male 46 years old with severe health anxiety since 12 years. Since childhood I have been a worrier, very sensitive & fearful. I struggle with unemployment after marriage & HIV fear for 2 years. Since last 12 years I have obsessing about heart related fear, heart attack, heart disease, arrhythmia, angina etc. Time to time I was being occupied & living with fear that, something happened to my heart.

See a Dr, we can't diagnosis you.

their is no chance of HIV without condom breakage...to overcome your fears ...take a test....taking a test can come out of fear 99% than googing...

What is the best way to overcome anxiety that is rooted in the fear of disease

i think this is a fair point that you are making,but i also think you are convincing yourself that you not good enough,it sounds like you are having some sort of depression.

i had sex with my boyfreind before marriage two years back.im going to get married in april2016.is there any chance that my husband would be knowing about my pre sexual life or i had sex before with someone else?This is not letting me sleep or concentrate on anything.Im very uch tensed.plz help me out of this.

past 3 months i had a penis skin tear problem at the edge part of it during mastuburating... Could mind please suggest me good decision to overcome this problem,still only 1 month for my marriage...

I am going through this. I have ocd.

- Firstly, a method of releasing or handling the subconscious "hurt memories" which have been stored. - Secondly, developing self-confidence to deal with the actual situation which triggers the fear. - Thirdly, developing new responses to express the emotions that are felt when the situation recurs.

ve tried to overcome the fear with little success. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks!

I am a 24 year old male, married, with a step son. For the past year (on a daily basis) I have been having very distressing instrusive thoughts. Inasmuch, that I sought a psychologist approximately once a month for a year. He continually reassured me that my thoughts were normal and that's life. I may agree that they are normal but the intensity and frequency of my thoughts inhibit me to enjoy life.

actually we are from India and her elder sister is unmarried and in our community its very difficult for elder sisters to get married with a married younger sister or having history of suicide in family, although her parents are ready for her marriage but she wants to wait for her elder sisters marriage as she say her early marriage will cause trouble in elder sisters marriage and she don’t want to create any more problem in her family because of her, now I fear that if she has decided in her

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