Not having sex until marriage
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So my man has trouble with ED and he takes Cialis, for a long time he never needed them for regular nightly sex, only for the kinky longer (no kids home) funner sex. Sooooo my problem is we never have sex and even with the Cialis he can't seem to perform. I have tried everything... Oral, hand all kinds. I cannot marry someone that clearly finds me unattractive. I was already in a marriage like that. Oh and to top it off around friends he makes like I am saying no to sex all the time.
Our relationship started off with us having sex 1 to 3 times a day just about everyday, until our first child then once a day until we had our last 2 (twins). Having 4 children knocked us down to 1 to 3 times a week. Our children are now 9, 8, and the twins are about to be 7. Within the last year or so we've dramatically went down to once a month if that and there is no passion, no emotion, and it's become quite forceful to get my husband to want to have sex with me.
In my opinion, it is not just "insane" but also extremely dangerous NOT to have sex before marriage or before trying to have children together. If you wait until you get married, then you can find out very easily that your wife is not compatible with you as a sexual partner. I would say that partners should get to know each other in every aspect before marriage or before they decide to have children.
In my opinion, it is not the best decision to wait until marriage - if you do not know the person you decide to marry also sexually, then there can be a lot of unpredictable surprises in this area after marriage - and unfortunately many of these surprises may be very bad and destructive... I think that partners should know each other very well before they get married - and sexuality belongs to such important parts of our personalities which shouldn´t be simply ignored before marriage.
s important for you to relax your body and relax your mind when you want to have sex. If you do not, you may be distracted and may not enjoy sex very much. It's important for you to feel good before and while you are having sex so your vagina is wet inside. If you aren't wet, it may hurt or be uncomfortable for you to have sex. It's important for you to touch your husband's body and have him touch your body, so you both can discover what feels good.
my husband and i will be celebrating our 5th anniversary this year. we have a 15 month old child. i'm sure this is no surprise, but our sex life has significantly diminished since his birth, though it was also going down during my pregnancy and 2 miscarriages before that. i know i'm partially at fault since i did reject his many advances often. unfortunately, he's gone in the complete opposite direction and has stopped any advances whatsoever.
I'm 21 years old and I've never had intercourse before. My fiance is about 6'2 and I'm 5'11. We've been in a relationship for a long time. Sometimes when we're making out, he fingers me and we've had oral (but I've never had an orgasm). We wanted to wait until marriage before having intercourse and next week is the big day.
Thanks everyone for the advice. I definitely do think I'm gonna wait on this one. I want to make sure I'm 100% ready before hand. And the thing is, I've always wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, but I'm finding that very difficult. I look at people who have waited that long and wonder how they did it, and I really look up to them. logins trying to stay abstinent as a huge challenge now, and it's been bothering me greatly..
antigen test on 24 days,i had unprotected sex with my fiancee,about 2-3 times. 1 week after 24 antigen test, i stop to having unprotected sex with my fiancee,we always have protected sex. but she also had symyptoms like me.
İ still have this one lymphnode on my left neck,painless after 8 months. during 1 year i had lots of symphtoms. Ok there are not because of hiv, but what the hell is this rashes now. And my fiancee had aphthae in here mounth.Why or what are those symphtoms?
Since you have been with her for 3years I am sure you ca convince her to get married before then unless if she has made a vow to lose her virginity at a certain time and as a virgin I am quite sure she need it as well so to experience it. i don't have a boyfriend i only had one and though we loved each we couldn't be together because i made a vow to God that i won't have sex before marriage and it is not easy but so far it is worth it.
There are so many reasons why a man may not be interested in having sex with you, but without his opening up and being honest, you'll never truly know why
1) Problems in the marriage. Did he and you have a falling out a year ago, when the sex with you stopped?
2) Does he have access to a computer, is there a possibility that he is watching porn? Some men are raised believing that it's okay to have relations with a sex trade worker.
Please advise
I have been iun a sexless marriage for most of the 24 years we have been married. This began just about the time we got married. Prior to marriage we lived together sex was hot and both of us were lets say experienced. About 12 years ago she got very involved in online chat rooms. I was sneeky and found out she was doing some serious flirting online with some guys.
I am 38 & my partner is 36 Now it is june I am not having sex with my partner since February because of some tensions not in our relations but because of our financial problems she is in no mood of having sex but we stay together we don't even kissed each other
we have a 7 year old son
a) is it harmful for her health ?
b) is it harmful for my health ?
Im having problems at this moment with my husband, He states im very insecure, jealous person, In a way he is right,
Im pretty , thin and sexy, but there is something that bothers me, Maybe i dont express it correctly to him. I mean we both like sex, but because of health issues we are not having as much sex we would want to. I know he loves me, and he cares, at the same time he has a bad temper , that is when problems start, I resent not having sex and then when we see tv.
My husband refuses or has no interest in sex with me but masturbates alone daily. We have only been married 7 months and its been this way for most of it. Why would he prefer alone sex to sex with me?
Yes that's how I was, I was the one that didn't feel like having sex. But its not only the sex, I feel that he doesn't like to be near me (no cuddleing, kissing, hugging) .
t planning on sex until we graduate (well me being very religious about my virginity, I want to wait til marriage.). One day. We went shopping for gifts for our families and my boyfriend is the kind to try "exotic" things and while I was trying on holiday dresses, he took off our clothes waist down and started to rub his penis near my vulva but did NOT insert it because of our terms. I'm not sure if there was pre-***.. Is it possible I'm pregnant?
Is there smthg going on? Are you stressed from your job, or maybe you’re just not feeling much like having sex. If it’s that, let’s talk to the Dr., maybe there’s a physical issue’ - etc.
If talking it out doesn’t seem to help, then definitely think about getting some marital counseling & make sure the counselor is comfortable with & has experience dealing with the sexual aspects of marriage.
Good luck to you - please check back in & let us know how things are going.
Why do I want to have p-v sex now? (If the answer is that your partner is pressuring you, that's a sure sign that you should say no).
What will happen if I get pregnant? Do the two of us have the time and resources to research which kinds of contraception might be most effective for us? Do we have financial resources to pay for contraception? Are we both comfortable using contraception? Can we make a commitment to use it effectively?
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