My husband of 28 yrs has been messed up for the past 12 yrs since I had my breast
reduction... It has ruined my
marriage. I had neck and shoulder pain and my
husband WAS supportive about the surgery. We discussed it, watched a video of the surgery together etc. what came after was so unexpected . My husband cried for months, tried antidepressant mess and we did grow apart. I acknowledged his feeling,tried to reassure that surgery takes time to heal and settle down.