Miscarriage grief poems

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773214 tn?1295135069 Found this the other day. I am using in an article for my cousin's Grief Connections newsletter and to put plugs in for my support group I have started at church. I thought it was a great poem and wanted to share it with all of you wonderful ladies... Just Those Few Weeks by Susan Erlin For those few weeks- I had you to myself. And that seems too short of time To be changed so profoundly. In those few weeks- I came to know you... And to love you. You came to trust me with your life.
Avatar f tn I had a miscarriage at 8 wks. Back in june 2013 my baby was suppose to be due last month and my sister in law was pregnant at the sametime with a baby due a month after mines meaning hers was born this month i cant help but to feel anger/sadness can really bare to see the baby or even her..i try to avoid them as much possible but i really just wanna get over this i know i cant stay like this forever..
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Avatar f tn So on Saturday about lunch time I went into hospital as I was experiencing some bleeding. Found it was old blood and wasn't alot, may or may not be having a Miscarriage. Following morning I woke up, lots of fresh blood heavy period like and lots of cramping. Rushed back in straight to gynaecology ward as it's Sunday and hardly any staff. Get checked out and as I'm getting undressed for examination, I see it. Start freaking out that something like a massive clot is hanging out of me.
Avatar f tn ) I like writing poems but my poems usually end up short and to the point. The irony is this is the shortest poem I ever wrote.
Avatar f tn For me, when pain and sadness lingers, often what is in the mix is some buried anger as well as the grief. Addressing the anger, can unlock also the pain and sadness. One way to find it is to look at what about the situation fits this sentence -- "It's so unfair that ..." and fill in the blank. Then follow that idea.
Avatar f tn Maybe you can find a grief counselor. My HMO has a specialist in grief issues related to fertility, who works in the ob-gyn department. I had several appointments with her and it helped a lot. The first appointment, I basically just cried. It's helpful to talk to someone who has dealt a lot with grief issues that are specifically related with fertility, if that is what you're going through. I think that kind of grief is like no other kind. I hope you can find someone.
915369 tn?1355314810 I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend's miscarriage. Grief and depression can feel very similar, but also very different at the same time in my experience. It's raw and powerfully overwhelming, inescapable. Depression for me, at least, is numb and lifeless, a void of emotion rather an a devastating flood of emotion. Like the other posters said, it's very possible that what you're feeling right now is a natural grieving response to a major loss.
Avatar f tn I know everyone handles grief differently. I guess this was just something I never expected. It kind of just knocked the life out of me.My husband has been a big help. If it wasn't for him, I don't think I would have ever left my house. It's everyone's looks that makes it hard to step out. Or even worse. The people who still come up and try congratulating me.
136689 tn?1419580447 I'm so sorry to hear that :( Take it easy, let your body heal and when you feel the time is right try again. I know it doesn't make the loss and grief any easier but the majority of women experience atleast one miscarriage in their reproductive lifetime. I have had 2 and a full term stillbirth (cord related) so I understand your loss, but I also have 4 beautiful healthy kids and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.
7989976 tn?1403493624 Is there any cute Father's Day poems from an unborn baby? I need ideas.
2052746 tn?1330383218 You are not heartless for not feeling grief over your loss. Everyone deals with it in their own way. My husband just said it will be OK. And that was it. Then about a year later a friend of his at work had asked him to borrow 700$ to pay for his wife's d&c. He told me he was only going to lend him the money because he remembered how helpless he felt when we had "our" miscarriage. I wanted to cry because there I was thinking he didn't care and he did.
2006473 tn?1422033301 My friend recently found out she was pregnant again. She has been worried about it since she miscarried last time around. She told me this morning that she thinks she may be having another miscarriage. My husband and I are trying to have a baby as well and I don't know what to say to her. I told her she can talk to me whenever and that I am here for her but it just doesn't feel like enough. Any suggestions?
782206 tn?1236103176 You are experiencing, I believe the most horrendous kind of grief right now! Do not deny yourself this grief it is necessary for you to get it out and come to peace with everything. Go to a psychiatrist and see if you need help medically to help pull you thru and c about joining in a support group with others who have lost a loved one to suicide. Be gentle with yourself in the interim and remember you will get thru this. It is hard and ugly, but you will survive.
Avatar f tn I found solace in keeping busy like Tony mentioned and reading as much as I could through some pet grief blogs, poems etc....but it was many weeks of extreme sorrow and then finally smiles started emerging as we shared so many great memories of our girl. It has started to get better but we each travel a different road in healing. You will find yours I am sure. Thinking of you!
Avatar f tn dont seem to be gettin any easier its was really tough for me and really knocked me down i stopped eatin for 2 weeks and got so weak then im goin in n out of hospital cos im in agony n keep losin tissue i had an ultrasound and internal last week still waitin for my results anyway ive done loads ive wrote poems ive bought memory braclets i had a tattoo i jus cant help think i cida done something i sot up and cry near enuff every night i never leave the house unless i have to i cant talk to my mum
756140 tn?1294767094 wow thanks for that, i love poems as they really help and encourage, we dont always have the right words to use,so poems like that are great.
1195411 tn?1277328333 There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever. Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications.
1305767 tn?1361192676 ” Regardless of what anyone says, a miscarriage is a miscarriage. You do not have to justify your grief or compare it to anyone else’s grief for it to be valid. A chemical pregnancy was still a pregnancy, and for many women, it’s still a loss of a baby and grief that will always they will carry for their entire lives. It’s also OK to not be too sad about a very early miscarriage and to decide you just want to try again.
Avatar n tn I have had several miscarriages and have 4 beautiful babies with 1 on the way. The best advice I have is to take it one day at a time and when you all are ready enjoy each other. Don't be anxious about the process if it doesn't happen right away because by the grace of God it may, let it in due time. I personally trusted in Jesus through everything because God is a restorer but that's my testimony and yours is yours. Many blessings to you on this journey.
Avatar f tn Well :( I went to my dr this morning for an ultrasound that I've been so excited about. I'm 7 weeks and was hoping to head my baby's heart beat but instead they told me they didn't hear/see anything and informed me that they believe I've had a missed miscarriage. They told me to come back Monday for another Ultrasound and of everything is the same that I would need to schedule a DNC. My heart is broken! I am 26, no kids.
Avatar f tn I started my first meeting on Sunday - that was hard but I felt relief. I know I need aftercare - I know I need grief counseling too. I can go thru my work or my church but I want someone who knows what there doing because to tell the truth I have 7 years of he** to come to terms with (I used to numb EVERYTHING). Something's still overwhelm me but I know now what it feels like so I take a walk or go someplace quiet or simply focus on breathing - it gets me past that moment.