Miscarriage grief healing books

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Avatar f tn I read alot, tried not to talk to many people about it mainly those here on this sight, read alot of self- help and esteem books and articles and hung out with my girl friends a lot more often. Nights were the worst. But as mami stated, time heals.
Avatar f tn I had a miscarriage at 8 wks. Back in june 2013 my baby was suppose to be due last month and my sister in law was pregnant at the sametime with a baby due a month after mines meaning hers was born this month i cant help but to feel anger/sadness can really bare to see the baby or even her..i try to avoid them as much possible but i really just wanna get over this i know i cant stay like this forever..
1195411 tn?1277328333 There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever. Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications.
Avatar f tn I was afraid that might be the case. I guess I'll have to just pester you all for information then !
Avatar f tn It took me days to make, I broke down a lot in the process but I think it has helped a lot with the healing. I NEEDED a place/way to acknowledge him and give him a place in this world. This is a link to the slideshow: http://www.slide.com/r/WcpzuPoy5T-1QQfoKSX24-URTv1PSPdJ?fbr=1 I hope that you find comfort and healing.
Avatar f tn I just had a miscarriage. Im crying right now because I just lost someone who meant the world to me.
Avatar f tn So on Saturday about lunch time I went into hospital as I was experiencing some bleeding. Found it was old blood and wasn't alot, may or may not be having a Miscarriage. Following morning I woke up, lots of fresh blood heavy period like and lots of cramping. Rushed back in straight to gynaecology ward as it's Sunday and hardly any staff. Get checked out and as I'm getting undressed for examination, I see it. Start freaking out that something like a massive clot is hanging out of me.
Avatar f tn m going to be gentle on myself, give my body a chance to heal and begin the emotional healing. My husband has been my rock and our children have shown what caring and lovely individuals they are. I am planning on writing an article on my experience. I had never heard of a missed miscarriage until it happened to me, nor had I been aware of how deeply emotionally painful it could be. I hope that by producing an article (i'm a freelance writer when I have time!
Avatar f tn nothing could have prepared me for it even though I felt the grief a long time before he passed as he was very ill for a long time and i knew the inevitable... firstly, you are not insane, far from it, you are a human life form who has feelings and with grief it can last a lifetime... it is how we consciously handle it to how we cope with it... everyone has a different way of doing this but I chose to carry him with me in my heart in my everyday life and keep loving him till I'm gone...
Avatar f tn Hi, I posted on 18-34 pregnancy forum as I was unsure if I was pregnant, doctor confirmed I was however a few days later suffered a miscarriage at 5-6 weeks...this was only a week or so ago, I know I'm hardly going to be on cloud 9, but how do I work my way through this? I keep looking at my stomach and thinking I should have a little bean growing in there, I feel let down by my body...I feel a touch depressed and this is a route I don't want to go down.
Avatar f tn Maybe you can find a grief counselor. My HMO has a specialist in grief issues related to fertility, who works in the ob-gyn department. I had several appointments with her and it helped a lot. The first appointment, I basically just cried. It's helpful to talk to someone who has dealt a lot with grief issues that are specifically related with fertility, if that is what you're going through. I think that kind of grief is like no other kind. I hope you can find someone.
7684852 tn?1437171892 physical not too bad but I do not feel like doing anything but sitting and watching TV. Good grief how am I going to feel when I don't take any? The only way I sleep at night is with Xanax. How do you get thru this?
Avatar f tn It's normal to feel that way. Men will never understand, so don't expect him too. It's going to take time. If you need to, you should se a grief councelor. I'm sorry for your loss. Also, maybe you should consider going on bc if your not ready to be a mom. There is nothing wrong with the way your feeling, just remember that.
915369 tn?1355314810 I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend's miscarriage. Grief and depression can feel very similar, but also very different at the same time in my experience. It's raw and powerfully overwhelming, inescapable. Depression for me, at least, is numb and lifeless, a void of emotion rather an a devastating flood of emotion. Like the other posters said, it's very possible that what you're feeling right now is a natural grieving response to a major loss.
623156 tn?1322865851 All of us on have suffered a m/c and the grief and healing can be a very long and winding road! We are all here for the same thing and that is support and understanding and a bit of hope! I wish you all the very best in your road of life. Take it day by day and just know each and every one of us is strong and truly heroic! Remember everyday is a new day! Hugs, AP Ps A daisy is a symbol of inspiration!
Avatar f tn I know everyone handles grief differently. I guess this was just something I never expected. It kind of just knocked the life out of me.My husband has been a big help. If it wasn't for him, I don't think I would have ever left my house. It's everyone's looks that makes it hard to step out. Or even worse. The people who still come up and try congratulating me.
875756 tn?1240100151 I'm so sorry for your loss. What your feeling is normal, you just lost a part of you and your emotions are all over the place. It takes some people longer than others to deal with their grief. I lost my son in October and I still feel it and probably always will. I found that talking about it to people who have been through it has helped a great deal. How far along were you? Did you have a D&C or natural? In time you learn to deal with the pain and your emotions will fall into place.
136689 tn?1419580447 I'm so sorry to hear that :( Take it easy, let your body heal and when you feel the time is right try again. I know it doesn't make the loss and grief any easier but the majority of women experience atleast one miscarriage in their reproductive lifetime. I have had 2 and a full term stillbirth (cord related) so I understand your loss, but I also have 4 beautiful healthy kids and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.
Avatar f tn Any particular reason why you posted to the ADHD forum and not the child behavior forum. I am the CL on both, but if you also suspect ADHD - it changes things a bit. But on the whole, I don't think its real abnormal. I am sure he misses his mom. Custody battles and CS involvement has got to leave scars. Kids also need a way to express themselves and I think that, at least partially, that is what is going on.
Avatar f tn Part of me was relieved, and then I felt guilt and hated myself for feeling any type of relief, and then of course the rest of me felt nothing but intense grief at the baby I lost and that I felt I hadnt appreciated enough while I was lucky enough to have her. Its been two weeks since and though I am up out of bed and doing what I should I cant shake the grief and hurt at the loss of her. I also feel completly alone and slightly betrayed by my husband.
Avatar m tn The doctors found out on Feb. 8 that I had a miscarriage and on Feb 9th I had a D&E, I was 7 weeks pregnant. My husband and I had tried for 8 months and 3 months prior to me getting pregnant we decided to stop trying for awhile, so it was a totally shock when I found that I was pregnant. I had already enrolled and paid for a 2 week CNA class which started on Feb.
2052746 tn?1330383218 You are not heartless for not feeling grief over your loss. Everyone deals with it in their own way. My husband just said it will be OK. And that was it. Then about a year later a friend of his at work had asked him to borrow 700$ to pay for his wife's d&c. He told me he was only going to lend him the money because he remembered how helpless he felt when we had "our" miscarriage. I wanted to cry because there I was thinking he didn't care and he did.
Avatar f tn If you go to Amazon or Barnes and Noble, many books have been written about grief from a pet passing. My vet runs a support group for those of us who are having a harder time, and the Public Library is also a real good source for books on grief at no cost. A year ago I was inconsolable, and now I just adopted 2 more females who really needed a home with a loving person.