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1376656 tn?1279113771 Well, man and woman are designed simliar, they are EXTREMELY different in many ways, and each man is different from other men. Some men, in a sexual sense, are attracted to breasts more than buttocks, but some find breasts obselete and just want buttocks, and some just want the vagina and nothing else. To answer your question, men are tempted because of the arousal, and because of the general media's view on breasts, it's somewhat of a "shock value" thrill.
8987997 tn?1413288175 I basically wanted to hear your views and experiences on this, did you go back to normal? How many children have you got? Did you have stitches? And finally how was your sex life a year down the line?
Avatar f tn They are too young to fully understand the implications of eg sex. Can they be easily led into a life where they choose gay men, especially if encouraged by their mother. They told me that one of them would choose a girlfriend and the other said he was not bothered. Can you comment on the situation please. They only visit their mother for a couple of weeks per year. Their father has residency. Can children be easily influenced at an early age?
Avatar m tn I am 20 years old so I doubt that age is not the problem. After sex, my inability to orgasm led me to conclude that I was gay by assumption. However, after reading several online blogs, I read that there are quite a few people who have my same inability to orgasm.I was a little afraid to have sex with my girlfriend because she has herpes and while I wore a condom, I still had some fears and pulled out several times. I have a history of anxiety attacks, but I do not take anti-anxiety medication.
Avatar f tn Men can conceive later in life than women, but their sperm does deteriorate with age, just as women's eggs do. But, there are men who have successfully gotten women pregnant in their 50's and even 60's. But age always works against us, no matter if it's men or women.
Avatar f tn Can I give you an honests mans side of the story? You need to better understand the male brain. Many of us enjoy watching porn. This does not make your boyfriend a bad person, nor does it mean that he is not turned on by you also. Porn for us men is kind of like masterbation. We have no emotion involved with it. As men we enjoy watching women have sex. "yes even hard core sex." This does not mean that your partner is a "freak" or weird.
Avatar n tn Because women see sex as a mental, emotional bonding thing that means forever after and all that. Men on the other hand see it as sex, period. Feels good so do it kind of thing. Now that is not to say that men are cheaters, just that their take on sex is different than ours. If he sees a naked chick, he is gonna look whether he loves you or not. If you ask him if he looked he will deny till the cows come home, cause he dont want to fight, but yeah, they all do.
Avatar n tn t been the same since and my son is 10 months old now. Although, from 6 weeks after baby on we have had sex at least once a week it takes alot of effort. I stay home now with the baby and take care of him all day alone.... and my hubby works 6 days per week if not 7 to support our family. We are both exausted and most of the time fall asleep before we can even crawl into bed together. But, we both try and really make an effort.... to where as before it was effortless.
Avatar f tn Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. During p-v sex, most men use an “in-out” motion that feels great for them, instead of the circular grinding motion that will stimulate the clitoris. So how about trading off once in awhile? Him first; then you—or vice-versa? Have you asked yourself why your husband is only concerned with his pleasure? Is this OK with you?
Avatar f tn The way to get him up and running is to use the wrath that women are capable of showing. Most men will buckle in their knees when the wrath of a women comes out. He needs you for the financial stability and a secure roof over his head. The power lies in your hands.
Avatar f tn Why do men wake up erect and ready to go? When I wake up in the morning, sex is the last thing I am thinking about but my BF always wants a little action. I don't mind it but it takes me a while to get excited and he doesn't seem to need anything to get in the mood. Just wake up and ready to go. He is very considerate and good at it so it's nice. He is 51 and I'm 48 but we both look younger than our age. Neither have children so no stress there. Anyone have any ideas?
Avatar f tn I'm worried about mine being stretched out too and I had a kid nine years ago. I worry the more I have, the looser I'll be. Please tell me it's not true. I love my husband, we have a great sex life. He says I have nothing to worry about, it doesn't matter, but I know it does too men. I hear other men talk about it all the time, granted they're more married faithful men. I would like some reassurance on this issue as well.
Avatar f tn Why do you think porn stars retire after about 5-7 years? Sometimes men think that after a woman has children, she will never want sex again. He might be cramming what he thinks is going to be 20 years of no sex into about a month! Discuss this with your husband. Ask him why he wants sex all of the time. What's going on in his life?
Avatar n tn i am 46 years old. i married 21 years ago.since i married i couldn,t happy my wife. because she felt and said after the sex, she felt nothing.she didn't feel that my penis went to her vagina. when i got in with in a minute i finished. i couldn.t do it for second time to make her happy.please advise me to get little longer atleast 5 minutes during sex with my wife.
Avatar f tn I think it is a personal opinion as far as when it ok to date again. You shouldn't allow other people to run your love life or tell you when it is or is not ok to begin dating. As far as introducing this other person to your children, take it from someone who was a child of parents that went thru a divorce, do not do it immediately. Your children also need time to heal and they definitely don't want to see you with anybody but their father.
Avatar m tn I beleive it is a two way street concerning the conceving of children. Women have the right to choose and so should men. After all it takes two! I would think that women would embrace men using birth control because it frees themselves from the concern of getting pregnant. So in short I fully support the use of male birth control. I myself had a vasectomy when I was 28, after my daughter was born. I have no regrets as I do not wish to have any more children.
Avatar f tn I have a 19 week old son and im 15 weeks pregnant again. Just lately fella is always wanting sex and if I don't give it him we argue. I've been very ill with both pregnancy's but that doesn't seem to sink in. I don't work at the moment and he says you can't be tired you don't do anything.
Avatar n tn I am a 43 year old male and I have had some weird problems lately. First, after sex I have had minor pain in the penis, scrotum and anus for some reason I can't figure out why. In order to make it feel better I sit in a hot tub for about 15 minutes until it starts to feel better. I also noticed when I am on a exersize bike I feel a tingling or numbness in my penis which is very annoying and I get off the bike. Blood and urine test were fine. Chlamydia test was negative.
Avatar f tn I dont mind at all but he does it alone so often i find when we have sex he loses his erection during sex. I give him oral sex,i always go on top, i have had another woman join us and he goes limp way to often. I am really a beautiful 37 year old woman......picture Pamela Anderson laying next to you.....you arent going to want to be with someone like that? Maybe he likes skanky porno girls. Im classey high end and beautiful. But i am very sensual and sexy in the bed room......
Avatar f tn Ladies...In your opinion does your vagina return to its normal after vaginal birth. I have heard men say no and some yes and Also heard both answers from women???
Avatar f tn So my husband knows how much it would help if we have sex. Even my doctor told him it was a great way to naturally induce labor. He still won't have sex with me! He's afraid to hurt me. Nothing I say can convince him otherwise. Im due on Wednesday and I bet I'll go way over thanks (or no thanks! ) to him!