That's a good question. I think men are not as attentive as women. Males, by nature, are more laid back then women, (IMO). So, their minds are probably in la la land half the time. However, it doesn't mean that they don't care. Two of my best friends are male. They forget half the things I tell them and tell me the same things over and over again. (lol) It's not that they don't care about me. If I need them, they are there for me! They will make the time for me.