We use condoms, anyway, but I know he doesn't. I think I have cancer of the vulva
because I have no visible lumps or bumps, but when I feel around the outside of my vagina, before the labia, I can feel a little hard spot on either side. It can be felt from outside the labia or inside the labia. It swells up a little and kind of burns right there before I have sex, but doesn't hurt afterwards. It only hurts when I am aroused.