I'm a volunteer, a long-time diabetic, and also not a physician.
There is one idea whose seed I'd like to plant with you and that is ... just as you & your soon-to-hubby yearn to be parents -- to love, nurture, discipline, and guide some young souls into healthy, productive adulthood, there are many babies and children yearning for a mommy & daddy to love them, raise them, and parent them like their own.