Some people are into quite unusual stuff, which is fine as long as their partner is into it too. As new partners,
and husband
and wife, it is bound to take some time as you explore what each of you like to find out what works best for both of you - particularly since you currently have no experience, and (for all I know) he may or may not also be inexperienced.
For this reason, don't put too much expectation on the first time.