Things that he CAN do include using his words, going
to a predetermined cool down spot where no one talks
to him nor he
to them, he can press his hands together tightly, he can count, he can take deep breaths, he can give himself a hug (very calming), he can go to his helping hands. (helping hands: take finger paint and have him make some hand prints. Then hang this on the wall and when he is upset, he goes to the hand prints and pushes hard----- slows the nervous system.).