There's probably no more than a 1% chance your partner had HIV
. Second, sexual transmission of HIV
doesn't occur except by unprotected vaginal or anal sex. If it occurs at all by oral sex, it's very rare; on estimate is once for every 20,000 events. And your risk is lower still, given the very brief oral sex exposure. Finally, HIV is not transmitted at all by hand-genital contact, fingering, kissing, etc.