Having sex before an abortion

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Avatar n tn While I have to admit that nothing it impossible...the chances of you getting pregnant from intercourse the day before an abortion is so astronomically slim...I have to say, no, you aren't going to get pregnant. Please do yourself a favor and use a condom EVERY time. Condoms not only help prevent unplanned pregnancy, they help protect against sexually transmitted diseases. Your partner can have an STD and not even know it. STDs can cause long term pain, disability, infertility and even death.
Avatar f tn Most doctors recommend a period of time to resume sex after an abortion of 6 weeks or at least until you have your follow up doctor's appt. to make sure you are properly healed. you should allow your body to rest and get back to 'normal' before considering another child. And also, as I said---- you want to make sure your emotions and hormones have normalized after the last pregnancy and termination before you make such a big decision to try to become pregnant again.
Avatar n tn Already I had an surgical abortion before 5 years and that to exactly 3 months was going. If this time I will do abortion, then will it affect my future pregnancies?
Avatar n tn there are other options than abortion. and in the united states 24 weeks is the limit for an abortion. after 24 weeks it is illegal. before you do have the abortion...here's something about a baby at 18 weeks... Head to rump, your baby is about 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a bell pepper) and he weighs almost 7 ounces. He's busy flexing his arms and legs — movements that you'll start noticing more and more in the weeks ahead.
Avatar f tn i am going to have an abortion on thursday, i am scared of not having kids again because they told me that there is a risk of not have kids again. i am only 16 and i dont want my future plans gone. i was wondering if i can have intercourse of the abortion? thanks for your help This discussion is related to <a href='/posts/show/262354'>How long before sex after termination?</a>.
Avatar f tn I got an abortion on june 19th I was 8 weeks pregnant I went to the the hospital this past saturday they did a blood and urine test that both came out positive an ultrasound was aslo done ans I was told that they didnt know if it was pieces of the aborted baby they were seeing or if it was the start of a new pregnant I got discharged and was told to follow up monday I end up goin back to the er where they test the pregnancy hormones in my blood they were lower from the saturday i came in I end u
6387609 tn?1393278331 But ShouldIt Come Down To The Difference Between Having To Have An Abortion For Medical Reason And Having An Abortion Purely Because You Weren't Careful And Didn't Use ProtectIon That One Time? Is There A Difference Or No?
Avatar f tn I dont believe in abortions now if a women was raped thats a different situation but il be the first to say i hate ppl who get them idc u knew the consquences of having sex unprotected before you did it i think ppl who get abortion just making innocent babies suffer for they own stupid mistakes if u dont want the baby put the baby up for adoptation but dont make an innocent child suffer that bad for something you did smh plenty of women out here cant have babies but females out here constantly g
Avatar f tn If u do have an abortion u need to gon on birth control because its not good for ur body to be having multiple abortions and its not good mentally either. Its your choice and if u decide to keep ur baby power to ya but make sure that u are going to love and support ur baby and protect and will give him or her the best you can...
Avatar m tn You're entitled to your opinion, but so is everyone else, and that's exactly why abortion is legal, because each person needs to be able to decide for themselves where they stand. At any rate, deciding to have an abortion is not an easy choice. It's not something people take lightly, so if you're concerned that women are just getting abortions on a whim, they aren't.
Avatar f tn I know i could never give up my baby for adoption. For me the choice was between keeping the baby or having an abortion. I knew abortion was the right code for me and I have never had any regrets.
Avatar f tn Does that really sound like a guy that cares for you or anyone but himself for that matter. My mom had an abortion before she had me. When I was 12 or so she asked what I thought about abortion and I reacted badly which I still do about the subject. She burst into tears and I knew, I thought I was dreaming and never thought my wonderful mother could kill her tiny baby. I could not bring myself to comfort her after she told me and I never looked at her the same.
Avatar f tn My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years and we planned on having a baby well at least that's what he was saying to me while we were having sex. And saying how he wanted to get me pregnant before joining the air force. Its very frustrating for me right now because my boyfriend is now begging me to get an abortion and saying the most negative things...calling me a ****, a *****, and every name in the book and continuously telling me how much he wants an abortion.
Avatar f tn I've had an abortion before and it aint the nicest thing to have done. What about adoption?
Avatar n tn I agree that we do not need to say hurtful things to anyone. However, having an abortion does raise a concern for several people. Many of us either know firsthand or have heard of the effects of it, and it's important for us to feel free to express our concerns and beliefs.
Avatar n tn I too feel that I am not ready, however I knew the risk of having unprotected sex. To have an abortion on the grounds of your boyfriend is abusive Makes it sound like you need a different boyfriend. Or he has things he needs to work on. You guys should really talk. No relationship works without communication. Does he know of your plans? And chances are if he doesn't and you do the abortion anyway... Your relationship will most likely be over, especially with him being excited.
Avatar f tn We have and always will offer advice and consolation to women contemplating or having had an abortion. While there are a few people who have said things they shouldn't it is always dealt with by myself or a MedHelp staff member. You're throwing stones at everyone here when no one has even said anything. sweetheart856 - I am so very sorry that you're going through this! We all make mistakes and live to regret things. Yours is a very tragic story and deeply self-wounding.
Avatar f tn from experience from an abortion and being in labour for 6 hours and seeing people come and go with the abortion pill. You start to bleed and have cramps within an hour. Thats a fact... And you NEVER take four pills. EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go to the hosp and say exactly what you just said to us, they might be able to save your baby.
Avatar f tn Don't kill the baby sweetie we all go through tough moments and struggled pain and hurt ut in life you gotta be strong because if you end up having an abortion its going to hunt you down every day. The man that got you pregnant is a JERK he's wrong for walking away from the baby and you, listen sweetheart keeping this baby will be the best choice you made yea you might be struggling now but one day you will get out of this situation. You will make it you'll be a wonderful mother you know.
1355431 tn?1369978906 I felt angry inside when I read a post about someone having an abortion a couple weeks ago and asking could I be pregnant again. I realize its every womans choice but for some reason it really upset me. I hate to feel this way, I am normaly such a understanding person. I guess it could just be because I have had so many pregnancy losses and I know plenty of wonderful woman who cant become pregnant. Just makes me sad :( Sorry if this journal entry offended anyone, just needed to vent.
Avatar n tn ok i had an abortion october 5th and i had sex 3 times a week and a half after that...its nov. 9th and i still haven't had a period they told me my period would come in 4-6 weeks or on my normal period schedule..i have been having various signs of pregnancy..i took a test and it was positive but my doctor told me it could be positive because i could still have high hcg levels...so my question is do you think i could pregnant again???
Avatar f tn Hi. I'm sorry you are having regrets. I've never had an abortion but have had miscarriages and a D&C last year. It took me almost a year to get pregnant again. Not b/c of any problems but b/c I wasn't ready. I think you are supposed to wait at least 6 weeks after having that procedure done before having sex and/or trying to conceive. My doctor told me to wait 6 weeks for sex and to wait 12 weeks to try to conceive.
Avatar f tn You need to be on BIRTH CONTROL. There is no reason for you to be having UNprotected sex after an abortion. Also you should probably have waited 6 weeks at least to have sex again after your procedure, because you could have an infection now due to bacteria introduced into your uterus during sex. Go see a doctor, and for gods sake be an adult and get on some birth control. you posted in the Pregnancy 18-34 forum, and many women there are praying for a baby...
Avatar f tn so this was actually a timetravel post from a forum member in the not so far (2009) future, that jumped back in cyberspace It should warn us
Avatar f tn I am currently pregnant and i am choosing to have an abortion...i was preg about 6months ago and i aborted that one at the fathers request...this time it is my decision...i know i am being irresponsible by having unprotected sex so i will be on bc from here on out, but i was wondering what are the risk of me having abortions back to back like that?
Avatar n tn i want to tell his parents that i have undergone abortion and he has done sex many times with me?is it possibe to prove this?please reply.
Avatar m tn From what I gathered from the manufacturers website your girlfriend should have taken the abortion pills before 63 days gestation. The fact that she was further along than that may have caused complications. You should really get her to a doctor.
Avatar f tn 8 weeks later i got an abortion and on the day i was fine it was a few weeks later i cracked and broke down everyday. everytime i saw my boyfriend i could see a baby and it killed me what i did! my boyfriend fully supported my decision. 6 months later i found out i was pregnant again. i was so angry at myself and sad i couldnt function. i didnt tell my boyfriend because i didnt want him being upset or worrying about me.
Avatar f tn Now I am with someone who is good to me. We want to have a baby (even though I am not sure I deserve one) and have been having unprotected sex for two years and we have not even had a scare?! Question: Does having more than one abortion make you less likely to conceive? My third abortion, I had some minor complications and turned out I was more far along than the doctor orignally thought.