having sex after a baby

Who all has felt a change in your man feeling distant or whatever. I try to even get dressed up to get his attention buy I feel I am getting no where . My baby is two months so we can have sex buy he don't try. I put on a sexy outfit for bed and he did tell me I looked sexy and we did have sex . He just don't realize how hard it can be to dress up when I'm trying to get use to having a baby and maintaining a house. I just feel depressed!

Does it hurt when you have sex again for the first time after having a baby say 1 month later ?

A nice cold beer with my honey.. that has to definitely be the one thing I miss the most!

Question Laddies , how long did you wait to have sex again after having your baby ?

Hi crystal. I did read your other post too. I think that after having a baby, the dynamics between a couple really change. Some are ready for it and others take longer to adjust. Your husband is adjusting. I do think you have to force the issue. Give him your baby girl and go lay down. For like 2 solid hours. I had this issue a bit with my first baby. My husband was a nervous nelly with the baby and wasn't really helping. I was exhausted.

A lot of women get pregnant right after they have a baby your still fertile during that time

So after having sex my lower back is killing me so bad :( and my stomach is so hard.

Does sex after having a baby feel the same? Does the vagina go back to normal size?

this mite seem like a crazy question but can it hurt the baby if i have rough sex in 11 weeks pregnant and when me and ny boyfriend have sex its a little rough and after we get done my stomach kinda hurts it feels like im cramping at the bottom of my stomach???

In my case, I just needed to know that everything was going to be okay with the baby and that despite having the kid the wife was still interested in having sex, but not immediately interested in having another kid. Ask if his fears are that you'll get pregnant again and if so then I'd have the talk about when or if you want to have another kid. There's a lot going through his mind and kist being assured of what both of you feel is usually enough to overcome any other problems.

Thank you.

How far along are you? I didn't have a shower for either one of mine and won't for this one either. With my son a started buying after I found out the sex. A little every week. And with my daughter I waited until the last min. Like a week before my c section. And this one I'm gonna buy little by little every week after we find out what we are having.

Use lubrication. It makes a big difference. Something water based like Astroglide. Go slow, take it easy, and have fun - it might not be super comfortable just yet but if you're ready for it then go for it.

re having a boy. He already told her that he wants a DNA test. There are many things that seem suspicious to me...making me think that she's not pregnant, but I'm also preparing myself in case she really is.

Yup! Totally safe! I have heard of women experiencing spotting after sex and that may be due to a swollen cervix. If you do experience spotting or pain, call your dr just to be sure.

If you started to menstruate and ovulate the chances are good

With my first we did it once around 5 weeks. It hurt so we didn't try again for a couple more weeks. If you feel your ready, then be prepared with lube and barrier method birth control (condom, diaphragm, etc.) or spermicide. You really don't want to get pregnant again too soon after having a baby!

Hello mums, I need your help ASAP . In due today and I has a sweep done to keek start things but nothing has happened so far . I'm not in any form of pain and I'm happy with babies movements . I leave with my partner and it's been weeks withought us having sex , he says he doesn't want to hurt me or the baby so we haven't had sex in a while . I do want some and I've him for sex tonite and he said ok. Do u think it's a good idea to have sex after a sweep .

I am pregnant with my second baby right now, my first is about to be 5 years old and sex after having her was still great, I mean you have to wait a lil while before you do it again but once you're clear to have sex again it should feel the same!

Spotting is very normal at 6 weeks. I was spotting till i was 8 weeks. My dr told me it was the implantation. I didnt have sex till it was over just because it freaked me out and i didnt wanna think something bad happened if blood ended up being on one of us.

How long did you wait to have sex after the baby?? and did you have to get cut while having da baby??

Hi, 1) there is no reason as said above to clean after having sex and if you are trying to have a baby then I guarantee you should not. 2) same as above, nothing can help that!! it will come out at some point 3) same as above, once you have ejaculated there is no reason for you not to pull out. Hope this helps!!

Having sex after a baby

Common Questions and Answers about Having sex after a baby

girls-sex