you have to ask yourself... is satisfying
a sex drive
sex worth the damage and potential loss within
a longstanding, 33 year relationship? Now, don't get me wrong... I'm a Latina, so I get where you're coming from when it comes to being "passionate" and all. But, realize that you do risk losing what you have now, verses what you may or may not get outside of the marriage.
So, getting to your question, "Is it wrong... to go outside... of marriage for sex?