Try being naughty in places that are risky, talking dirty, role playing, asking what he wants & deciding what is comfortable for you, try getting loud, just have hot, sweaty, dirty sex lol. Or, a sweet love-making session is just as refreshing, if not more. Candles, sensual foods such as strawberries beforehand, going nice & slow, etc. New positions are harder to find depending on how far along you are, but they also help. Lay on your back,.