good sex in menopause

No cycle yet usually b4 my cycle my breasts are seollen and tender nothing this month im thinking menopause is starting or im pregnant. we had sex soon as my perod came off on March 19 th and every other day after that. i took test 3 days ago and negative. so im being cool dont want to get my hopes up. what do you think?

2 and my Testorsterone was 6 my OBG suggested Bio-identical hormones. Is this a good thing?

My libido had been next to non-existent since menopause and now I am in overdrive. My husband travels a lot, but that has never been an issue. I have no desire for sex with anyone but him, but now I masturbate many times during the day and my "toy" is with me whenever I am home. My husband hasn't been home since this started, and I don't want to kill him when he gets home. This started literally overnight about a week ago. Please help!!!!!

If you had sex 5 days ago implantation most likely hasnt even occured yet IF you did concieve... plus if you are not getting a period there is no way of knowing if you are ovulating or had a chance of ovulating... The only way to know for sure where you are at with menopause is to go to you Dr and gets tests done to see, and if you are not trying to get pregnant then protection is a must at this point as well! im not sure what pill your talking about taking?

I am almost 61 and I miss sex. Problem is I have vaginal dryness and it seems like everything is getting smaller in my vaginal area. What can I do?

husbands sperm burns inside my vagina after he ejaculates, he eats nothing but very spicy foods and after no sex for years due to this problem, what can be done? It's not menopause, because we've had sex since then - for me is was at age 35.

I am 58 and petite and slim, after not having sex for 9 years , i met someone who is 56 and in relatively good shape. I have not had a period for 4 years and had some discomfort, heat in my neck and anxiety during my menopause. Then i felt nothing for years, I am now sexually active again and discovered that we enjoy the sex very much, it is more sensual and i am not dry. He started using condoms but we are now exclusive to each other and we enjoy the sex without them.

I was married for 24 yrs where sex was for his pleasure only. I have really only discovered good sex in the last 5 yrs, only had my first real orgasm 5 yrs ago, prior to surgery I had multiple orgasms everytime we made love, my breasts responded to the slightest touch even from me, now there is nothing, this is not fair, no one told me this would happen, had i known i would have begged the surgon to leave 1 ovariy at least.

s problem, she might want to use the cream for general purposes, and maybe this would also rekindle her interest in sex. Be sympathetic, nothing is a turn-off like painful sex. If that is it, however, she might be convinced to try some solutions rather than give up on sex entirely.

Have a frank discussion with your wife about your feelings and emotions. A visit to family clinic may help. Involve her in good foreplay that might help. Take care and regards!

I heard that as more we age the vagina walls become thinner but I also heard that if you want your vagina to be heatlhy in that tricky age as if you are above 40´there are several changes in your female organs and yourself, it helps to have sex often to make your vagina like more active in some way Is that true and why is that?

So, have you had the pain with starting sex then it goes away? And spotting after sex? I also have early periods. He wears a condom so it is not just friction it is some other discomfort I never had before. Well, any input is helpful. This all new and a bit scary. My mother never went through real menopause as she got cervical cancer before menopause and had radiation therapy. So she had a quick onset of menopause. She never discussed it with me. She has passed away a long time ago.

My doctor thinks its hormone related in menopause. It could be from some allergies that I developed in menopause, it could be eustachian tube dysfunction, it could be from tapering a medication in May of 2009. Ive had it two years now. When my ears ring high its like a high pitched sssssssss. My face and nose usually itch as well, and Im sound sensitivie, and my head feels funny, and I have a strange taste sensation on the front portion of my tongue, and Im generally tired.

I am a 45 year old woman and I feel like **** most of the time. I have cysts on my ovaries that cause quite a bit of pain, I have learned to deal with it due to no insurance, so I cannot have surgery. I feel HOT most of the time, I do not have any interest in sex, I don't have any interest in anything for that matter. The doc I saw last year said I am too young for menopause but the more I read about it........ Is this the way life is going to be for the next 30 years?

Get a second opinion regarding the bleeding. You know very well what's normal for you and what's not. It's good that the pap smear is normal, but I'm sure you'll want some sort of closure for why you're bleeding after sex. Unfortunately, some doctors just don't want to put in the effort to figure things out. Hopefully finding a different gynecologist who will actually help you get to the bottom of things will make a difference.

There are both prescription drugs that can help reduce menopause symptoms, and also some herbal alternatives that help & have fewer side-effects. There may be a very small number of women whose sex drive increases during/after menopause, but I don't think it's very common. Unfortunately, for the vast majority of women, menopause causes their sex drive to drop off quite a bit, sometime dramatically.

I skipped the month of June. In July I had 4 periods, with only a week break in between. Each lasted for two weeks long and were heavy and very watery. I bled twice in August. And just had a period from August 30th to Sep 5th which was very heavy and watery. So far I have had no more bleeding this month....yet.

I went to my gyn, and we agreed to have an endometrial ablation done (google that). If you are done having children, this may be good for you. I still have a good sex drive, and I now only spot a very tiny amount for about 2 days once a month.

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But the new study shows that the reasons many women stop wanting sex, enjoying sex and having sex are far more complex. While women traditionally have been blamed when sex wanes in a relationship, the research shows that, often, it’s the health of a woman’s partner that determines whether she remains sexually active and satisfied with her sex life. (Most studies have focused entirely on heterosexual women, so less is known about same-sex couples after menopause.

Menopause for a woman of that age will result in loss interest in intimacy, but not completely, so I understand how it can be of concern and fustration for you. Continue to express you concerns and needs and I'm sure she will come around and realize that you do have needs.

It's very, very common for our sex drive to take a massive plunge when we hit menopause. It's all about hormones, as you know, since your doc perscribed testosterone cream, which I can tell you doesn't work. Well, perhaps I shouldn't make quite such a bold statement. It did absolutely nothing for me, and believe me, I tried many times! LOL Many women swear by HRT, but there were too many reasons I couldn't take it. So I just waited and little by little my libido returned.

Never used birth control as the doc said I was lucky to have the one child. But surprises in life do happen. Its been two weeks since I last had sex...will take the pregency test. Thanks for input..probably worried for nothing....

Please could someone tell me who I can turn to for help.

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