Are you turned on, and are you ready for p-v
sex? Some
women let their male partners make all the sexual decisions, including when to have p-v. If you’re not lubricated and turned on, this can be painful. In addition, if your partner has little or no sexual experience, he might not be aware that both of you need to be very turned on before p-v sex, and that it takes time. You need lots of touching, kissing, etc. and whatever else turns you on.