Good sex and commitment
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I am a middle aged woman and have been a relationship for the past 7 years with a man of the same age. We have been living together for 6 and a half years and went through difficult times (not difficult in the relationship but otherwise, eg financially, etc). When I agreed to live together I was already certain that I wanted to marry him, but no commitment of that sort has ever come from his side.
In Your last paragraph You say You're flirting with other men but You're not really a flirt........
You say You don't have attention or affection issues BUT "it feels good to think guys want me".....
I disagree with both these statements. It IS attention seeking and it IS flirting!! You should seek therapy to understand why You do this as I would guess that Your BoyFriend would view this behavior as unfaithful as "emotional" affairs count too!!
By the way Dr P, I've just been on your site - love the case studies and article re heart vs head!
You can certainly talk to the authorities, but whether or not they will pursue a 302 commitment is another story, and honestly, it isn't a reasonable long term solution anyway. VERY seldom are people held against their will beyond the first 72 hour period. Usually, at the initial hearing (after 72 hrs), the person is either discharged, or agrees to change their admission to a 201 (voluntary) which of course means they can leave whenever they want.
However, as we continue dating, I am growing more and more anxious about the possibility to transmit to her, and what negative impact might be on her, even if she understand and accept the consequence and risk before hand. I was worrying if we were together, I cannot give her the best sex life she could have had. I spent sleepless nights thinking about if it is responsible to continue our relationship.
) If anything your ob will admire your honesty and commitment to the safety of your baby. as Vicki said once you get honest all the fear and stress will just go away and I'm sure your Dr. will reassure you that all will be well. Now you are aware of the power of your addiction so you may want to look into a addiction specialist our some kind of outside support. I wish you and your babe the very best..
Alright, I'm fourteen and I have had sex twice and both times the next day and a few days after that I feel sick to my stomach and I cant eat for those days and i feel like throwing up if I smell certain things like I had sex with this guy who had fruity gum in his mouth and then we had sex and the next day I got a wiff of peaches and it made me gag? Do you think me being drunk could have anything to do with it?
however, this is not a very effective means due to the fact that it requires specialized equipment, calendar, a very regular cycle and a very big time commitment. And even if you follow all the protocol, there's still no guarantee you won't get pregnant.
You also stated that you don't think condoms are "safe." I don't know what you mean by "safe"; however, it's important to know that when used properly, condoms can prevent both pregnancy and infection.
And the feeling you get about him, beyond sexual passion, and beyond charm, and beyond intelligence, money making ability, and all else. And his history of behavior with other women. And what he actually DOES with you, not what he says. Personally, I'd look to the models he got at home, both mother and father. How does the the father treat the mother? What are the family values? Also, does the person you're interested in seem to be psychologically healthy, or troubled?
Congratulations on your commitment to safe, condom protected sex. You are at no risk from the theoretical exposure you might have experienced by putting your mouth on a condom that might have been contaminated by his genital secretions because you touched his genitals earlier in the encounter. The micro organisms that cause STDs do not survive well outside of the body or on dry surfaces.
1. There are two main reasons for having sex, firstly as a component of affection and commitment towards another person (being close to one another) and for pleasure. (For heterosexual men and women a third consideration, procreation also comes into play, along with all of the issues that relate to parenting, etc but those elements are less relevant to your situation). Relative to the first variable however, respect for one's partners is also part of such a commitment.
There was potential there because you say for 6 months or so that things were good and I believe from what I'm reading that you love him and want this to work.Relationship therapy if he will go is a great idea because there is a third party who will listen and advise.If he really loves you he will change his ways and be there for you.This relationship can be saved with therapy.All the best.
Hi Ford, I think this problem steems from masturbating and you used to much pressure when you were masturbating, next time your having sex switch to doggy style, two ways get your wife to keep her legs together as this will give more pressure, or taken that you have a foreskin, with two fingers hold your foreskin back exposing the head of your penis, your find that the extra friction that this will cause will help you ejeculate, works for me every time.
t take the bc, he still had sex with you. Raising a baby alone is hard but many do it and reap the benifits. Forget about everyone else, do what you think is best.
I have had an abortion after a rape. Still cried the whole time and they didn't do it right and i ended up in hospital in full labor for a week. It does take a huge toll physically and mentally. I also have tried all bc methods.
I already felt well educated on STD/HIV risks and after the event I read a lot of information, mostly on this site and was re-assured and put it behind me, even if sex was involved with I am 99.9999% sure there wasn't. It has only resurfaced with this present change of family life and commitment. I don't want to go through the increased anxiety of testing as I believe its uneccesary.
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