I do think being pregnant at a young age
can change the trajectory of your life (not trying to be negative, it is just reality) and that as a young mom, you will have to work a bit harder to accomplish your goals. So, SOME people say these things from a place of caring about you. They know it is a bit of a struggle and wish you'd have it easier in life. Never lose sight of your goals. If you want a college degree, keep working hard to pursue it. Work to get ahead in life.