These feelings of discomfort can create extreme conflict and cause you to feel the need to get it over with quickly
. If you look at sex as something to finish quickly
—get it up, get it in, get it off—you’ll need to let go of that old mentality. And naturally, if there are any relationship conflicts or you’re angry or feeling resentful about your partner, these can also contribute to wanting to get it over with. In addition, these feelings can also inhibit erections with a partner.