I love my children more than anything on this earth and would never think of treating them the way she's treated us. I have the same, wonderful husband for 20 years and are happy. We have a beautiful home
, nice, new cars, and 2 beautiful, good kids. We worked hard for everything we have and never asked her or anyone else for anything. She has deep psychological issues for sure, but will never go for help, since she says "it's everyone else, not her that has the problem".