It has been many doctor visits,many tests,ER visits, etc,, Finally closer to some answers... It is Fibromyalgia
-after RA,Lupus,lyme, and thyroid ruled out..They are still going to run some blood tests again, but at least I can think that it is not something life threatning but life altering.. I will continue to visit this site for supporting others and some support for myself .. The only one that truly understands is my mom, who has suffered with this for yrs.