fear of ugly people

Hey, wow you seem to be the first person i have come across who has a silmiar illness as i do! I guess since i was little i have suffered from social phobia, always withdrawn and quiet. When i was 19 i had a severe breakdown and developed panic attacks and depression which made me both agoraphobic and severely socially phobic. Although i know exactly why i fear people, i have had more than my fair share of abuse both from mum, the people who brought me up and boyfriends.

1)how can we take his fear out 2)is this mentally affected hardly 3)Any treatment for this please do a detailed answer asap

I met a person who cupped my testicles and used his fingers on his other hand on the outside of the tip of my penis for about 20 seconds. I asked to look at both of his hands, baby smooth, not cuts, no sores nothing. Guy never touch or came close to the opening at the tip of the penis. So no risk of STD's or HIV right? Everything I read here say no risk. I just want to scream at myself and and yell what are you doing it's Christmas time, it supposed to be fun times.

i am afraid the doctor will tell me something is wrong with me, or tell me i have an ugly vagina or something of that region. i do not know what to do. this is probably my greatest fear.

i wish i actually knew the name of some of the websites for you to visit. i found them myself when i was looking for birthing videos. there are sites out there that show the endless photographs of the vagina.

What you descrive is a panic attack when you have this intense fear, then you become afraid of the fear and so on until it becomes a vicious circle. You came to the right place! You should browze a lot of these threads as you will quickly see that you are not alone in your fear and anxiety and you will perhaps learn from how others have coped with it.

I think some of the people on this forum are thinking this is a joke or something im not trying to be ugly but this is not a place for fashion or aything like that! People here have serious problemsand need help me being one of them (anyway)just had to get that off my chest!!

i am afraid the doctor will tell me something is wrong with me, or tell me i have an ugly vagina or something of that region. i do not know what to do. this is probably my greatest fear.

Please no rude comments. Am I selfish because I have the biggest fear my daughter will come out ugly? I don't wanna be the mom where people go yeahh she's adorable and then people go behind my back and say she's ugly.

What is wrong with people? This woman knows how hard this last couple of years has been on us and then stand up in front of several people in public and say that. I really feel sorry for her husband, he is kind and gentle and he's a wonderful employee. OK, it's over but not forgotten.

No :/...my feet swell...face has gotten bigger...can't fit any of my clothes anymore....my face is breaking out...sighs...I'm just miserable and feel so ugly...

Thank you for sharing this story Dazon50. The story of Ugly truly touched my heart and reminded me of how ugly yet still beautiful our world can be if you live in the moment. It is true that just as we think we are helping to heal someone; we are the ones being healed!

Plus My Skin Has Gotten So Oily That I Dnt Even Attempt To Put On Makeup Out Of Fear Of Clogging My Pores And Breaking Out. I Used To Wear A Full Face Of Makeup And Get Dressed Up Everyday. Now I Just Lounge Around In Sweat Pants Or Leggings And I'm Only 14Wks. I Dnt Want Any1 To See Me And Think I've Let MySelf Go Lol.

Anybody else getting tired of all the ugly stares from people, and sometimes other pregnant women? Yes I may not be married or engaged but you know what **** happens. I now have an amazing man by my side who absolutely loves me and loves my daughter like his own flesh and blood.

This is going to sound crazy but any feedback would be greatly appreciated. For a while now I've had an intense fear of being ugly. I know that I'm not ugly but just the thought of being ugly or being associated with anything ugly scares the hell out of me. For example, I have a huge fear about dating an ugly woman which constantly plagues me.

My son who is five said something to the teacher about tearing down the school. Of course, nowadays people react much stronger esp after events where kids actually did do crazy things. Maybe he did not mean it, you can ask your son about it. I have told my son not to say kill in teh school b/c people really overreact! I would stay in close contact with the teacher and pay attn to other things in his school environment. Is he getting along with others? I know it's frustrating!!

@mommykat-People act like they are forced to comment on every post, why not just pass it if it annoys u so much, we are all confused thats why we are here, to shed some light with our individual experiences.

That said, a lack of confidence or social fear is represented in the way people look. Looking at you, I can tell you have that fear in your eyes and that is what is unattractive. The fear that you are unattractive (which physically you are not). WEAR A SMILE, MATE and I am not talking about something you try force, I am talking about a genuine smile. Something which comes naturally.

Is it normal, to be 30 weeks pregnant an feel ugly depressed an unattractive? I feel like plain crap, I've got stretch marks. My whole body's breaking out. I can't even do my hair an makeup an feel pretty I still feel ugly. I'm 20yrs old with barely any family, an I'm struggling to get everything together on my own.

I felt the same but alot people tell me I look cute pregnant but I live in Florida n its hot so I wear cute little sundresses because my Jeans and shirts r very tight. I go to the Dominican salon n get a blowout weekly sometimes every other week. I dnt have the energy to do my hair. Pampering yourself like going to get a pedicure helps but hun see it this way being pregnant is a blessing n a beautiful thing.....

My grandmother got married when she was 18 years old, she was young and had a baby and so she figured it was the right thing to do. However, things didn't work out and she and my grandfather got divorced. Soon after, she got involved with another man. In my early years, I really remember him being kind and humble, I call the man 'daddy' for crying out loud as my father moved abroad before I was born. For six years, this man was all I knew in my daily life.

IF you have to have cancer. I am trying to enjoy my life but I let the fear of the unknown get the best of me.

I got a letter from my school stating that since I show effort in class and have pretty good grades they are inviting me and my parents to breakfast and then will have an awards ceremony. I am soo scared to eat in front of people. I'm fine with my parents but none of my friends are going either. All people I don't know or don't like. I'm picky about food too and I know I'm not going to like it so how can I eat it without looking grossed out?

Stop fearing breathing. I know it's easier said than done. You don't just get over a fear (I feel though personally this is more than just fear) it's fear that has took over our every aspect of our lives. You can breathe again. Don't hold in your breath. Worst thing you could think to do like it would be helpful at all. No. I'm not afraid someone coughing anymore. Be assertive.

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