Recently, we have had threads on
smoking that have gotten nasty quickly. I think we all know that
smoking is bad
for mom and baby, but this does not make it appropriate to insult or shame other members. I'm sure all our moms to be love their babies, and someone can make poor choices without that reflecting on their love for their babies. We all have things we'd like to change - weight, bad habits, etc., and shaming doesn't promote change, ever.