Some examples are how she wants her carseat buckled, who gets her out
of car, which cup she uses, how she wants you to phrase
sentences spoken to her, how her cup is positioned, etc. I expect a certain amount of defiance from a 3 year-old, however, the battle is over almost everything and her reactions are almost always over the top. There are many days filled entirely with screaming and crocodile tears. She can be very compulsive, particularly when she is tired.