ve done research, and so far I know the only anti-depressent to not have a weight gaining effect, it actually has loss of appetite effect, is
Effexor, but is in a different class
and can affect people different ways. But this needs to be discussed with your husbands psychiatrist. I trully feel you being open and honest with how you feel with your husband is important, and giving him some options of what you would like to see happen. I wish you both good luck.