You need to get active, get involved in things at school with your
kids, volunteer at their school, church, anything that gives you the opportunity to meet others. You will find love again one day, for now just concentrate on getting yourself in a better emotional state and making your children feel secure. My husband passed away leaving me with 3 children ages 4, 2, and 1. I had nobody to lean on, and I had to make it for my kids sake and everything I did was for them.