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9136326 tn?1402967358 Shortly after we got married he lost his job, started drinking, and had an affair. He got this women pregnant, at the same time i found out i was pregnant. I left, of course, and ended up delivering alone. Since i am a christian, i am really against divorce. I believe ifsomeone does something once you should forgive them once. Even though im not naive enough to think men who cheat stop cheating, thats just how against divorce i am.
Avatar f tn I'm 25 years old. The father of the child practically ran away when I told him I was pregnant. Feeling a little overwhelmed but managing fine thus far. 9 weeks 5 days in, my doc officially removed me from full time hours due to how sick I've been. Now I only work 20 hours a week. My family is huge support. Don't know where I'd be without them. Still hurts a little when I see people talking about how happy their guy is about the baby when mine was a little wimp and left.
Avatar f tn Let him know that pregnancy is hard on a woman and you need all the support and understanding you can get. Stress and unhappiness will do no good for your baby. And your baby is your miracle together so it's living proof that you guys love each other and that's why you're married! As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of.
Avatar m tn I need to share my story and hopefully get some suggestions and support and wisdom out there. I recently turned 50. I my early 40's I suffered a series of losses in a short period of time - lost my dad, my mom, best friend from college, my sister had three brain tumors (3 separate operations and survived) my father in law, miscarriage, financial, etc. I never grieved all these losses, just pushed it inside so I could function. I wound up drinking to get thru the pain and became alcoholic.
620877 tn?1282764097 I really need some encouragement right now...As some of you know, my husband of 10 1/2 years recently asked for a divorce. I have just moved into an apartment with my 2 dogs (lab & golden retriever) and cat. I am struggling with the divorce - my husband has become a completely different person. He has hired a personal trainer, is apparently completely obsessed with his appearance and his personality has undergone a complete 180.
Avatar f tn Find your inner strength and come out fighting!! It is very hard and you will want to give up, but find your support and hang on tight to them. Surrond yourself with people that will cheer you on and not bring you more stress!! Like said above, Copaxone should be able to finacially help. God Bless and take care!!
10707428 tn?1415569790 when you have this child even during a separation your ex will have to pay not only child support but spousal support from the sounds of it to insure you are able total care of this baby. id seek legal advice to confirm all this but i think as much as getting the hell out of there seems appealing it could back fire on once divorce proceedings start. and im assuming you have your dr. or midwife where you live now. i wouldn't interrupt your prenatal care now.
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar n tn In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.
Avatar f tn m not sure if he unadopts your son once you divorce but I would for sure get his *** on child support for the baby your carrying.
Avatar m tn It has been about 10 months now and I still get over the eevnts )seperation/divorce and all the ramifications that go along with it. I never wanted this and being the recipient of the divorce makes it so much harder. I am deperessed and lack confidence. It doesn't seem to get better, I try to trick myself sometimes, but it doesn't always work. The bottom line is that I still love my wife (ex) very much.
10185128 tn?1410802667 t need a lawyer because we had no children no assets and everything else we distributed fairly and civil with each other we both wanted divorce so he offered to pay and deal with filing the divorce considering I never worked our whole marriage and didn't have any job skills it just seemed logical to let him deal with it while I tried et back on my feet
Avatar f tn My mom raised to children on her own and she had us at 14 and 19, with no support. As women, were much more capable of the impossible than we give ourselves credit for. Life is to short to.live in misery and with blatant disrespect.
Avatar f tn I'm 39+2 days pregnant and need all the emotional support i can get. The pregnancy hasnt been easy to this day because i m going through a divorce while taking care of a two year old and no help (emotional and financial) from the father. Please pray for me so i can get through this !!!!
Avatar f tn The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
1530342 tn?1405016490 By Jen Heger Radar Legal Editor Arnold Schwarzenegger is paying child support to his estranged wife, Maria Shriver, even though the couple has yet to iron out any kind of financial agreement, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Neither Arnold nor Maria has officially filed for divorce yet, but the former Governor of California has been paying his estranged wife "a significant amount of child support.
Avatar f tn I have a 13 month old and me and my bf are kind of all each other have as far as friends go. I went through a divorce a few years ago and everyone we knew together took his side so i dont talk to or see anyone anymore. Lately I've been craving company that isnt my bf or his mom or my daughter but its so hard to meet new people and make friends. Anyone else in this situation? How did you make / meet new friends?
2074425 tn?1339178443 On ur first question it definitely is possible to get divorced on the phone as long as he provided them with the address to have the divorce decree sent to. My husband did all their correspondence for his divorce thru the mail. The child support thing I'm going tell u like I was explained, it doesn't natter how much he makes those kids will be taken care of and if she isn't wrkn that's more than fair to support his kids.
Avatar f tn That's good to hear that he is paying child support, so that can't be an issue holding up the divorce then. Maybe the alimony situation is unresolved? I don't understand how you think if he can't see or talk to his kids now, that that will change after the divorce? Maybe your fiancé needs to put that inn order in the divorce, that he have visitation rights to his children, that's if he wants to keep up a good relationship with them.
Avatar m tn personally, i believe unless there is a physical/mental disability that permits you from working enough hours to support yourself, everyone is an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYEE! part of the reason texas is trying to limit fathers being able to move, is too many men are fleeing the state in leiu(sp?) of getting away from child support.....then TEXAS is stuck paying all these child support orders, and having single moms on welfare, assistance, housing etc....
Avatar f tn I just read your post that you live with his parents. Does he have a job? I can't believe he's working on baby #3 and still living under Daddy's roof. Does he have money to support himself and give you child support? If he's not making enough money even to give you decent child support this might be hard.
Avatar f tn Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?
Avatar f tn Does anyone else get jealous when they see other pregnant women? I'm not getting any support from my partner or family so when I see pregnant girls who are so happy and well supported it makes me a little jealous.
Avatar f tn It sounds like it's pretty clear. He's not willing to respect you, and he knows he can get away with lip service to pacify you or he'd have stopped all this behavior like he said he would. He seems to view you as a pushover. And your daughter's grown up seeing this behavior regardless of how much or how little she actually knows. If you're unhappy and unable to be the best you for your daughter and for you, and you feel divorce is right for you, then go for it.
Avatar f tn Hé cheated on me 4 years ago after 26 years of marriage and I forgave him. Our daughter was very sick at the time. He said that no thing happened physical at that time. It was all cyber talk with ladies. This time, I found an emotional and physical affair and he was planning to leave me and leave his children for someone he met on cyber just two weeks ago and had sex 3 times with her. Our son was having a surgery and the youngest one was depressed and he travelled 12 hours to see her.