Shortly after we got married he lost his job, started drinking, and had an affair. He got this
women pregnant, at the same time i found out i was pregnant. I left, of course, and ended up delivering alone. Since i am a christian, i am really against divorce. I believe ifsomeone does something once you should forgive them once. Even though im not naive enough to think men who cheat stop cheating, thats just how against divorce i am.