Divorce support thoughts

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Avatar m tn I need to share my story and hopefully get some suggestions and support and wisdom out there. I recently turned 50. I my early 40's I suffered a series of losses in a short period of time - lost my dad, my mom, best friend from college, my sister had three brain tumors (3 separate operations and survived) my father in law, miscarriage, financial, etc. I never grieved all these losses, just pushed it inside so I could function. I wound up drinking to get thru the pain and became alcoholic.
Avatar m tn hi. my partner suffer from depression maybe 15 years on and off already. we met two years ago and with my help he gave up drinking, started medication and therapy, first with AA, than professional counselling, is going through very difficult divorce, lost his job - all in one.he can't cope with the easiest things, everything in his head is getting enormous.
Avatar f tn Find your inner strength and come out fighting!! It is very hard and you will want to give up, but find your support and hang on tight to them. Surrond yourself with people that will cheer you on and not bring you more stress!! Like said above, Copaxone should be able to finacially help. God Bless and take care!!
10707428 tn?1415569790 when you have this child even during a separation your ex will have to pay not only child support but spousal support from the sounds of it to insure you are able total care of this baby. id seek legal advice to confirm all this but i think as much as getting the hell out of there seems appealing it could back fire on once divorce proceedings start. and im assuming you have your dr. or midwife where you live now. i wouldn't interrupt your prenatal care now.
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar f tn Today we had an argument nd he asked for a divorce knowing I can not do it alone financially he also said tht once the divorce papers are completed he doesn't want anything to do with any of us and wants us to stay away from his family ... he took all his things nd moved out ima at a complete loss I don't have friends or family around and do not know what to do now...
Avatar n tn In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.
Avatar f tn Let him know that pregnancy is hard on a woman and you need all the support and understanding you can get. Stress and unhappiness will do no good for your baby. And your baby is your miracle together so it's living proof that you guys love each other and that's why you're married! As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of.
Avatar m tn It has been about 10 months now and I still get over the eevnts )seperation/divorce and all the ramifications that go along with it. I never wanted this and being the recipient of the divorce makes it so much harder. I am deperessed and lack confidence. It doesn't seem to get better, I try to trick myself sometimes, but it doesn't always work. The bottom line is that I still love my wife (ex) very much.
Avatar n tn Cocaine addict, I am clean 30 days today and cannot get the thoughts of wanting to call my dealer. This realllllly sucks. While I was in Rehab, a dual diagnosis facility, I felt very safe, now I just can't seem to get my head together. AA/NA just doesn't seem to help. I struggled with this disease for 30 years, going through an abusive marriage and terrible divorce. **** this sucks.
4437866 tn?1388119624 Here in Australia custody rights happen with the divorce usually (its in our divorce papers) but it can happen at any time if the need arises, just means more money and lawyer/court costs. And like mizzztaylor said, unless they are adopted they still have to pay child support, don't let him get out of that one, thats what alot of these men try to do, think if they have nothing to do with them they won't have to pay for them.
667078 tn?1316000935 Hi there - I am still around. Dealing with "the toad" and the unpleasant drama of my divorce. I am just amazed at how he is behaving. He has a "blog"...I know, how narcissitic right?....he decided to respond to the many accusations from friends and family that he is having a "midlife crisis" by blogging about our marriage (details etc.)....To say I was humiliated is putting it mildly. I spoke to my attorney, who spoke to his and he took the blog down...
1481358 tn?1288295091 Sorry to hear about your divorce and it is a hard thing to get through. So let it all out and stay close to your support system and post post post it can be great therapy.
Avatar f tn I'm 39+2 days pregnant and need all the emotional support i can get. The pregnancy hasnt been easy to this day because i m going through a divorce while taking care of a two year old and no help (emotional and financial) from the father. Please pray for me so i can get through this !!!!
Avatar f tn The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
Avatar f tn Not a question just thoughts i feel alone cause my child father told me to get abortion but im not i had one at 15 im 23 i just kinda wish i had support from family or friends but im alone i don't want to stress my self im just pray and ask god to help me and lead me in the rite direction i never had a mom myself so im going to try and be the best single mom i can s\o to all the single moms
1530342 tn?1405016490 By Jen Heger Radar Legal Editor Arnold Schwarzenegger is paying child support to his estranged wife, Maria Shriver, even though the couple has yet to iron out any kind of financial agreement, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Neither Arnold nor Maria has officially filed for divorce yet, but the former Governor of California has been paying his estranged wife "a significant amount of child support.
620877 tn?1282764097 I really need some encouragement right now...As some of you know, my husband of 10 1/2 years recently asked for a divorce. I have just moved into an apartment with my 2 dogs (lab & golden retriever) and cat. I am struggling with the divorce - my husband has become a completely different person. He has hired a personal trainer, is apparently completely obsessed with his appearance and his personality has undergone a complete 180.
Avatar f tn I have a 13 month old and me and my bf are kind of all each other have as far as friends go. I went through a divorce a few years ago and everyone we knew together took his side so i dont talk to or see anyone anymore. Lately I've been craving company that isnt my bf or his mom or my daughter but its so hard to meet new people and make friends. Anyone else in this situation? How did you make / meet new friends?
Avatar f tn It's because they want to figure out child support as part of the divorce decree, and they can't do that if the baby's not here yet. But you can file, you just have to wait til the baby's here to get it finalized.
2074425 tn?1339178443 On ur first question it definitely is possible to get divorced on the phone as long as he provided them with the address to have the divorce decree sent to. My husband did all their correspondence for his divorce thru the mail. The child support thing I'm going tell u like I was explained, it doesn't natter how much he makes those kids will be taken care of and if she isn't wrkn that's more than fair to support his kids.
Avatar f tn That's good to hear that he is paying child support, so that can't be an issue holding up the divorce then. Maybe the alimony situation is unresolved? I don't understand how you think if he can't see or talk to his kids now, that that will change after the divorce? Maybe your fiancé needs to put that inn order in the divorce, that he have visitation rights to his children, that's if he wants to keep up a good relationship with them.
Avatar f tn i am not explaining well but feel him , breath with him, send the best of you to him through your thoughts, tell him that he will be all right and believe in yourself, you have your own self to go through this, you don't need anything else but you...by believing in yourself , you believe in him... don't ever give up thinking and believing the best, i trust and believe that everything will be all right, Lesa . My dear friend, i wish i could be there with you ....
Avatar f tn If i was in your pistion I probably wouldve knocked him flat on his a$$ for saying I chose for him to treat me this way...I also hope you have support from family and friends...Best of Luck.
620877 tn?1282764097 Well, I am signing the lease on my apartment today. That is a relief. I will be meeting with my lawyer on Monday to see if we are a fit (which I hope we are because I really like his paralegal and she does most of the communicating with the clients). But, if I don't like him, or don't think that he will represent me appropriately, then I will continue looking. Nice paralegal or not!
154327 tn?1210113394 t understand is how i can go from feeling totally normal and never having problems at all with anxiety to feeling far from normal and having problems with anxiety everyday. Is my divorce the trigger for this? My divorce was such a big change in my life and i thought that maybe my anxiety could be coming from this and my reaction to the divorce.