Divorce support for men

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Avatar f tn I hope it all gets better for you too!! Keep strong ... i will pray for you too!! Wow just to think we are in the exact same situation ...
Avatar f tn Yes, you have to work out the legalities of visitation and custody in court with child support. Truth is, seems like a lot of men don't have an interest in being around their kid that much so it may not be an issue--- but if he's one that does and this will bother you (it would kill me to be away from my kids)--- then that is something to think about. I think, though, that every man has a moral responsibility to contribute to the support of their child.
Avatar f tn If i was in your pistion I probably wouldve knocked him flat on his a$$ for saying I chose for him to treat me this way...I also hope you have support from family and friends...Best of Luck.
Avatar m tn even before other family members. You have a lot on your plate and I commend you for getting help for your alcoholism. That is a tremendous feat. You have moved on through so much and you will do this too. I feel, however, you cannot do it alone. You definitely need to seek out a therapist (Psychiatrist or Psychologist preferrably) to discuss your situation so you can "vent" out all that you have been through and feel what you need to feel.
10707428 tn?1415569790 My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?
Avatar f tn I think a therapist would be a wonderful idea for you. Someone neutral that you can really explore why this relationship holds you in bondage. Is that something you'd consider?? Sometimes when we are in an unhealthy relationship, we've developed unhealthy thought patterns that we have to undo. So, the help of a therapist could be a great thing for you.
Avatar f tn If you did pursue a divorce, you will most likely stll get the benefit of depending on his salary in the form of alimony (support for you) and child support (for the kids). They are two separate financial obligations that he is legally bound to make. I am not one to recommend divorce, so that's not the route I'm suggesting you take. I just wanted to point out that if your circumstances led to divorce, you have the potential, with the right divorce lawyer, to still depend on his salary.
Avatar f tn thanks for your support. I can't believe the attacks coming my way from my ex. today is a tough one the freaking headache is killing me and just the overall anxiousness but I don't want to leave the house. My ex is coming to get my daughter for his evening w/ her and I'm going to force myself to get out for a walk.
Avatar f tn Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?
Avatar f tn Soo..I had this happen. Basically I couldn't stand my now exhusband while I was pregnant..but it was because of a huge number of things that were going on. What he said, what he did, how he acted, etc. I waited until we had our second child and still kept trying to make it work even though I couldn't stand him more times than not. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and it was obvious that it was unhealthy so I left him.
Avatar f tn It's never easy but can be done. If Ur in an abussive relationship get out ASAP!! 1st for Ur safety, 2- for Ur babies safety. It is unfair & unhealthy for U & Ur child. Ur husband/boyfriend cannot take Ur child away fr U (whether U work or not). U have to be an unfit mother by being very neglectful or by using drugs. U don't necessarily need an atty, call the court they can help (there usually is a court clinic that works w people).
Avatar f tn t start until we were separated and I had hired divorce attorneys. Any advice. Also, I really care for this other man and the timing seriously *****. I would like to give the relationship a chance but it seems far fetched in this situation- I don't want to loose him though.
Avatar n tn I would like to find out for those of you men out there if you have gone through this and why? The reason I am asking is 3 weeks ago my husband came home and told me he didn't love me anymore. He said I love you as a person, and respect you. This is after being with him for 31 years and doing everything for him. Taking care of him while he was sick, when he lost his job, standing by him.
Avatar f tn Hi..thank you for your kind words!and yes he's paying child support which is good,I don't have A problem with that..what I don't understand is about alinmony it's like he doesn't have extra money for that .he already have a lot if Credit card billes that when they were together he's paying that off.it's like a lot of bills how about my future? That's why it's hard for me ..and will never able to have a house or anything !!!
Avatar m tn They may even be valid excuses for a divorce, like abuse or infidelity, but the thing is...people *usually* go into a marriage knowing the others' downfalls but they think it'll never happen to them anyway. Please note: Usually. Not always. As a Christian, and also from experience of my own downfalls in a past relationship that unfortunately involves my innocent son who deserves none of what that relationship came to, I have realized what real Christian Marriage is all about.
Avatar n tn Well you could always withhold the sex and he will find someone to do it with and then you can divorce him for adultry. Seriously now, you have two options. The first is to go on life you hve for all these years and the second is to get out. God doesnt like suicide much either and geesh, get yer stuff and move out and be happy for crying out loud. Or just move out and let him file for divorce but at least live by yourself and let what ever happens happen from that point.
Avatar f tn I do not have the money for counseling, so please do not tell me to do that. I am a teacher who is divorcing. No funds for counseling.
620877 tn?1282764097 I really need some encouragement right now...As some of you know, my husband of 10 1/2 years recently asked for a divorce. I have just moved into an apartment with my 2 dogs (lab & golden retriever) and cat. I am struggling with the divorce - my husband has become a completely different person. He has hired a personal trainer, is apparently completely obsessed with his appearance and his personality has undergone a complete 180.
Avatar f tn I think that for moat men, the baby is t really real to them until its here. Until they can physically hold it and see it. They don't feel the kicks and movement and hiccups the way we do. Its different. The time we spend bonding with our baby because we feel those things they don't get to do until they hold the baby. That's what I think anyways.
Avatar f tn why do they try to do that to married people strange thank you all for the support on this issue Regards Sandy . my husband may not be perfect, he has issues, been married for 20 years.
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar n tn In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.
Avatar f tn As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of. I'm 38+5 so I have body aches and even standing in the shower is difficult for me cuz I can't really bent down to scrub my legs. So he'd hop in the shower with me, make sure I don't slip, and scrub my body for me and give me a massage.
Avatar m tn Time to pull yourself up by the bootstraps Bob I know that you can do it. I will tell you again my husband was an alcoholic for years and years his whole life up I will say that it was right about 17 years of alcoholism. He thought at one point his life was over and not worth living. Today he would never get back with his ex. As far as being angry goes just allow it and let it pass. Try the book I told you about. He helped me so much in my quiting smoking.