Divorce support for children

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Avatar f tn If i was in your pistion I probably wouldve knocked him flat on his a$$ for saying I chose for him to treat me this way...I also hope you have support from family and friends...Best of Luck.
184674 tn?1360860493 social and school success. But once divorce proceedings began, children fell behind and failed to catch up for at least two years. "The best thing I can suggest is that when we observe children of divorce, we need to intervene as early as possible," Kim told LiveScience. "Because if children of divorce undergo a certain stage, then it is hard to make them catch up to their counterparts.
1530342 tn?1405016490 By Jen Heger Radar Legal Editor Arnold Schwarzenegger is paying child support to his estranged wife, Maria Shriver, even though the couple has yet to iron out any kind of financial agreement, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Neither Arnold nor Maria has officially filed for divorce yet, but the former Governor of California has been paying his estranged wife "a significant amount of child support.
Avatar m tn I want to outgrow my children, I want them to not suffer the pains of my death but instead remember me for the good things. Bob, I know times have been tough, your losses great, your trials long and tiring. Look at the good though, you have accomplished rehab, you have started a clean life. Maybe God has a greater plan for you. My father whos about your age was an acholic or years, and after my step mom of 7 years left him, he fell a mess..
2074425 tn?1339178443 In Nevada child support is 18% for 1 child and goes to 24% for 2 children. Now that is based off gross income not what he brings home. If the filing was strictly for divorce then that's all the judge would handle. If he wants partial custody/visitation with the children then he would have to file for that. In which the filing has to take place in the state of which the children live. I hope this is of some help to you. Also yes he can do court by phone if he is unable to make the hearing.
Avatar n tn Hi there I have been seperated for 6 months, going through the trials of a complicated divorce.. I have a 10yr old son who went through angry outburts a couple of months ago as he did not want to see his father (his father hit him in anger on a visit), through counsellors recomendation I told my son that he did not have to visit with him until he was ready to see him.. Since then his outbursts have stopped and he seems much happier in himself..
Avatar f tn The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
Avatar f tn Where I am, child support is worked out on if the father has any other children to support, which from the sounds of it, he's maybe not paying because if he was, the mother would know it was based on the needs of 3 kids, not 2. Maybe this is what is holding the divorce up? Unresolved issues with the other 2 children?
Avatar m tn Time to pull yourself up by the bootstraps Bob I know that you can do it. I will tell you again my husband was an alcoholic for years and years his whole life up I will say that it was right about 17 years of alcoholism. He thought at one point his life was over and not worth living. Today he would never get back with his ex. As far as being angry goes just allow it and let it pass. Try the book I told you about. He helped me so much in my quiting smoking.
Avatar f tn Thanks for your post -- your issue seems actually to be less about dealing with your kids' anger at your rules, and more about the lack of support you feel from your spouse for the enforcement of the rules. I think the place to start is to speak to your husband about why you feel it is necessary to have the rules you have, why his lack of support of those rules is a lack of support of you, and why he is so worried about conflict.
Avatar m tn don't we mothers who stayed in horrible marriages ever realize that we do it out of inadequacies in ourselves rather than for our children and that"s why _maybe_ our children became angry and estranged from us???
10707428 tn?1415569790 My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar m tn It is not unusual for children to display some insecurity when parents are going through a divorce, particulalrly when the divorce is not accomplished in an agreeable fashion. I would not characterize this reaction as a phase, but rather as a reaction to the unpleasanr reality of divorce. It would be a help to your daughter to arrange therapy for her as a support in the face of this difficluty change in the family.
Avatar f tn thanks for your support. I can't believe the attacks coming my way from my ex. today is a tough one the freaking headache is killing me and just the overall anxiousness but I don't want to leave the house. My ex is coming to get my daughter for his evening w/ her and I'm going to force myself to get out for a walk.
Avatar f tn Hi, again thanks a lot to all of you. i was so ashamed about what my husband did that I could not tell anyone even my family. it helps me a lot to get it out of me. I feel less lonely. My family isn't around. I don't want either to tell them to protect my children.
Avatar n tn Find someone to talk to for one, a support group for one, there are many churches that have support groups that help someone who is taking care of an elderly or ill parent, plus they have support groups for people who are going through divorce, seek out these groups, it will make it easier on you being about to talk to people in simular situations. I will pray for you and your family.
Avatar n tn Make sure you have no doubt in your mind that this is what you want to do to ensure that you will not have to go through the heartache of another divorce. Do it for yourself and your children. Divorce affects them too. I pray you find peace with your decision. We support you!!!
Avatar f tn He has filed for divorce 3 different times but we never have went through with it. His mom completely is my worst enemy by enabling him to leave me.
Avatar f tn You could ask your good friend to put you and the kids up until you get on your feet too. Or tell him you want a divorce and ask him to leave for the sake of his children, so you don't have to turn their entire world upside down.
Avatar f tn It's never easy but can be done. If Ur in an abussive relationship get out ASAP!! 1st for Ur safety, 2- for Ur babies safety. It is unfair & unhealthy for U & Ur child. Ur husband/boyfriend cannot take Ur child away fr U (whether U work or not). U have to be an unfit mother by being very neglectful or by using drugs. U don't necessarily need an atty, call the court they can help (there usually is a court clinic that works w people).
932867 tn?1244595725 thank you for you support and I understand also what your kids must be going threw I have a friend across the street who is now going threw a divorce and her Three year old is suffering bad she is only a month or so into the seperation and already he is showing signs of regression, agression and so forth I did not know this group supported in that as well I think that I will let her know. I wish you the best as well and wish that the kids get thew this well. As of where I live.
Avatar f tn Not that it sounds like he much wants to. But in any case, he is obliged to pay support for both children. The law is on your side. Talk to your lawyer, it's important.
Avatar f tn ago and i was so ready for divorce. he went into a christian drug and alcohol program. he has now been clean for 13 months. and we are healing. i know the rage,sadness and hurt you have. are you sure he is going to the rehab? has he admitted he is an addict or is he doing it because you forced him? yes it is possible to heal. if you would have asked me this 2 yrs. ago i would never have believed it. the pain was so deep, and the hate so real.
2705841 tn?1339826656 I have been married for 14 years to my husband and we have 3 children together. We lost our house in May due to us both being unemployed and getting behind on the rent. We sold everything we owned in our house and decided to move back to our home state of Georgia from Florida. Our mothers and alot of family are in Georgia so we figured we could get back on our feet there faster. Ultimately we decided he should go first and secure a job and begin the task of finding us a home.
Avatar f tn He has filed for divorce 3 different times but we never have went through with it. His mom completely is my worst enemy by enabling him to leave me.
Avatar n tn if you put yourself in her place for one minute could you share with us her thoughts that would make her want to withhold your children from you- I believe it's Dr. Dobson who writes books about boys and their needs for attention, acceptance, and approval from their dads.