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Avatar m tn I need to share my story and hopefully get some suggestions and support and wisdom out there. I recently turned 50. I my early 40's I suffered a series of losses in a short period of time - lost my dad, my mom, best friend from college, my sister had three brain tumors (3 separate operations and survived) my father in law, miscarriage, financial, etc. I never grieved all these losses, just pushed it inside so I could function. I wound up drinking to get thru the pain and became alcoholic.
471113 tn?1245108820 Ask your doctor if there is a support group in your area. Some people on the board organize lunches and other get togethers. There are a number of people on the board that live in California, so perhaps you can meet one of them.
Avatar f tn Find your inner strength and come out fighting!! It is very hard and you will want to give up, but find your support and hang on tight to them. Surrond yourself with people that will cheer you on and not bring you more stress!! Like said above, Copaxone should be able to finacially help. God Bless and take care!!
10707428 tn?1415569790 when you have this child even during a separation your ex will have to pay not only child support but spousal support from the sounds of it to insure you are able total care of this baby. id seek legal advice to confirm all this but i think as much as getting the hell out of there seems appealing it could back fire on once divorce proceedings start. and im assuming you have your dr. or midwife where you live now. i wouldn't interrupt your prenatal care now.
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar n tn In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.
Avatar f tn Let him know that pregnancy is hard on a woman and you need all the support and understanding you can get. Stress and unhappiness will do no good for your baby. And your baby is your miracle together so it's living proof that you guys love each other and that's why you're married! As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of.
Avatar m tn It has been about 10 months now and I still get over the eevnts )seperation/divorce and all the ramifications that go along with it. I never wanted this and being the recipient of the divorce makes it so much harder. I am deperessed and lack confidence. It doesn't seem to get better, I try to trick myself sometimes, but it doesn't always work. The bottom line is that I still love my wife (ex) very much.
Avatar f tn I'm 39+2 days pregnant and need all the emotional support i can get. The pregnancy hasnt been easy to this day because i m going through a divorce while taking care of a two year old and no help (emotional and financial) from the father. Please pray for me so i can get through this !!!!
Avatar f tn The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
1530342 tn?1405016490 By Jen Heger Radar Legal Editor Arnold Schwarzenegger is paying child support to his estranged wife, Maria Shriver, even though the couple has yet to iron out any kind of financial agreement, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. Neither Arnold nor Maria has officially filed for divorce yet, but the former Governor of California has been paying his estranged wife "a significant amount of child support.
124426 tn?1239928000 I go through times that I get real depressed because of my inactivity. I guess I came to this board for support and suggestions on how to get through the rough times. I'm very glad to be here and hopefully we can become friends and learn something from each other.
Avatar f tn Perhaps you ned the support of a group, there is AA.
Avatar f tn I have a 13 month old and me and my bf are kind of all each other have as far as friends go. I went through a divorce a few years ago and everyone we knew together took his side so i dont talk to or see anyone anymore. Lately I've been craving company that isnt my bf or his mom or my daughter but its so hard to meet new people and make friends. Anyone else in this situation? How did you make / meet new friends?
2074425 tn?1339178443 On ur first question it definitely is possible to get divorced on the phone as long as he provided them with the address to have the divorce decree sent to. My husband did all their correspondence for his divorce thru the mail. The child support thing I'm going tell u like I was explained, it doesn't natter how much he makes those kids will be taken care of and if she isn't wrkn that's more than fair to support his kids.
Avatar f tn That's good to hear that he is paying child support, so that can't be an issue holding up the divorce then. Maybe the alimony situation is unresolved? I don't understand how you think if he can't see or talk to his kids now, that that will change after the divorce? Maybe your fiancé needs to put that inn order in the divorce, that he have visitation rights to his children, that's if he wants to keep up a good relationship with them.
Avatar f tn Hi, recently I got married and on our honeymoon he informed me that if I go to the bathroom (pee or poop) or pass gas in our new house he will leave me as that is not acceptable to him. He says 7 Eleven in down the street. Im so shocked because he never brought this up before we were married...we didn't live together.
199980 tn?1233797404 The sympathy and support of your online board friends and your in-the-flesh ones. These folks are great, and I hope ou have some of the other kind, too. Best of luck to you.
Avatar n tn 2 days pregnant with my second son and I have a 16 month old. My husband just told me that he wants to file for divorce again (we went down this route nearly a year ago) and I think it's definite this time. I'm having a hard time with trying to be okay because he's choosing the worse time to do this, but I'm trying. I was wondering if there are any other moms out there who have had this experience before and what they did to try and just keep positive.
371980 tn?1276740809 Its affecting my kids and that hurts. Divorce is such a long stupid drawn out process. Why??? Its not this hard to get married??? Just get the F*** out!!! Leave me alone. I just can handle the fighting anymore!! Then feeling helpless when Gizz needed it. UURRGGHH!!!! I just cant handle much more. See know im venting which is what i think i needed. Im just gonna keep busy, cry when needed and try to get the thoughts out of my head!! Thank you all for listening!!
Avatar f tn How do you guy feel about child support? Do it causes alot of drama with you and your baby father? I really dont want to do it because I rather avoid the drama but I know im probably go to be forced to do it because im receiving cash from the government. Is it a way I could get around this?
Avatar f tn oh I'm addicted to VICODIN and it ***** the big one!!! and I actually have no one I just got divorced from a hell of a guy ya he really was an *** very controlling manipulative and honestly no love there couldn't turn to him if my house was on fire and I have custody of my daughter tells ya a little about him.
Avatar f tn Get out and go for a walk! Exercise! It really does help on the day of deliver plus you go back in shape like nothing.
Avatar n tn ll want to get child support from him and to encourage any involvement he will have with the child. And then get a plan together for how you will raise this little baby alone. How you will work/go to school, how you will make enough income to live comfortably and provide a safe, stable home for the child and yourself, who will watch the baby, health insurance, etc. It sounds like you are ready for the sacrifices that go with motherhood. It's a great thing being a mama. I love it.