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But unless he is physically or verbally abusing you, abusing drugs or alcohol or cheating, I would definitely work on it with him. If you love him. Marriage is work and men can be SO ridiculous and stubborn. But so can we. So talk with him before doing anything rash.
Well, you ask very good questions. Marriage is a big deal and I take it that in your culture, divorce is rare. There are usually signs if someone is going to be abusive and after 7 years you would probably see them. Is he controlling of your activity, critical of you, gives you a verbal lashing if you displease him, ever been aggressive towards you. These would all be red flags. People do change and stressful circumstances can cause someone's behavior to become worse.
I have been wanting to leave my husband for several months now. And he is on to me that I'm seeing someone. Which I have been.
But every time I tell him I don't want to be with him anymore, he forces our love for me to love him and I don't. I love him in a caring way but not an intimate way. Hes a type of person who gets hurt very easily, and I want to know how bad of an idea would it be if I told him I had been seeing someone for 7 months?....
I applaud you both for seeking a marriage counselor, who will try to get to the bottom of all the problems and how best make the marriage work. Give the counselor a chance. Give your marriage the benefit of the doubt and when all is said and done and you feel that you no longer want to be in this marriage, then consider a seperation or divorce, but remember that all decisions have life long consequences. I do wish you both well.
I went through a divorce after a marriage of about 26- 28 years if you count the time it took to get divorced! I lost everything! BUT! I kept my head up and believed there had to be something better out there just waiting for me. I did it one day at a time. Now, I have been married to my best friend for 10 years! We do not argue. It is incredible! AND I appreciate my first marriage which was all arguing because that man helped me to appreciate a good man and value the love we have.
Paandupura, it is happier to be alone than to be in an unhappy marriage. Arguing to the point of demanding a divorce is a textbook definition of an unhappy marriage. Please don't worry about whether another man will come along and whether the same thing will happen again. Your value to yourself and to the world does NOT depend on a man.
My husband recently left me .. I'm due n 3 weeks.. I feel super sad .. Cry I want him back ... He says he wants a divorce he's not happy... He came to say bye to my daughter of 4 yrs old and we ended up having sex than later on tells me it was juss sex n doesn't mean he wants to get back togather.. I'm so confused what shld I do???
During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
divorce seems to be on most people mind nowdays and not saving the marriage, i wonder whet happened to the people that used to get nmarried for love i have started a new journal about marriage and dreams ect since you have already decided there is nothing to say, except the spark does not last forever another kind of love takes its place as time goes by luck jo
So that horrible moment hits you that your marriage is actually over. But, it's because you don't put up with him calling you stupid, dumb a$$, idiot, etc...he told me after Simon is born he's going to hit me....I told him to leave and not come back. I said since you hate me so much I dunno what's keeping you here....and he called his mommy and he's gone. Good ridence I say farewell...
Dear kind ladies, wld b grateful for ur opinion. Husband n i are married for 3 months. I am 9 weeks pregnant. After wedding n honeymoon we live separately, like 30 hrs flight away cos he works in different part of d world, so we haven't even started livin as a couple. Had a big fight caused by same old trust issue that's bn haunting us for yrs, and nw we're thinking of a divorce.
Just to clarify...once he was released from jail (where he was diagnosed bipolar) his meds have for the most part been successful. With the exception of the distance between us and his recent relapse, he is nothing but loving, caring, and willing to do almost anything I ask (to the point that it appears to be ***-kissing...and makes me feel like I am taking advantage of him).
I know exactly where you are coming from!! Never thought it would happen to me either! 26 years of marriage and HE cant take it?!! Really, after the children are raised, and i have worked my butt off just like he did......
At the time I was not dx and my neuro was sure it was MS, but didnt have enough of the criteria. He told me I was fat, depressed, and that he was miserable! How would he like to be in my shoes?? I was determined.....I left the home because i could not afford it.
There is a guy I like and he is getting a divorce. It's only been about 2 months into the process, how soon can I say something? I know him through a business I go to. Would be be fine to send a card and just state that I am sorry about the stress he is dealing with at this time and that I hope everything works out well for him?
I have plans to take up lunch for his staff as I have often done things of this nature over the years. What are your thoughts?
My husband came out of a 25-yr marriage to a nymphomaniac, who he eventually divorced b/c she cheated more than once. We have only been married for 3-yrs, but divorce is back on the table for the 5th time and I'm tired of the threats, disrespect and problems. My husband masturbates almost every day; because of his age (59) and pre-conditioning with previous wife, he has to take viagra to do so.
Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.
Tell him if he continues being verbally abuse and bring in other women into your marriage that you want a divorce. Reverse the situation to where he should be worring and not you. Surround yourself with possitive people that will stand by if there is a crisis (family, friends, church people or learn to accept yourself and be independent...you can do this). Please let us know how everything turns out. If he threatens you....call the police and not take it anymore.
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