Divorce papers for iowa

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4437866 tn?1388119624 I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)...
Avatar f tn Well that is how I feel, that I should follow my heart and I feel the same way jason explained on the Bachelor because I have met an incredible guy even though my husband is a great guy hes not for me. My husband found the divorce papers I had hidden and completed the other day and burnt them. So I'm back to square one again.
Avatar f tn no friends or family here in Iowa. Everyone I know is in Michigan, got dragged down to Iowa for a divorce from my husband, and because we have children from the marriage, I had to move here during the divorce because he had temporary visitation every Wednesday. But now with the divorce finally almost over (In August) I will be able to move back home to Michigan.
Avatar f tn They were together for 2yrs and married for 1 & 8 mths..they have been seperated since nov. Then tryed to work it out and he left her again..well she kicked him out in dec. We got together on feb.15..the same night she brought her new boyfriend to meet all her friends at the club we all went to..
3178444 tn?1348441829 Things got so bad I had to get a restraining order against him.
Avatar f tn m going through a much needed divorce, it should be final in September when I get my divorce decree. The DF and I are living here in Iowa as of now, but as soon as my divorce is final I am wanting to move back home to Michigan. However moving costs a lot of money these days, especially when moving out of state. I don't know what would be best for my family at this point.
Avatar f tn But after ten days he informed that he is serious about the breakup and want me to sign the divorce papers. And very soon after the breakup he jumped in a new relationship and started to flirt with every girl. But the thing is he used to say we have to sign the divorce papers and fixed a day but on that day he wouldn't receive calls. This process was repeating. He took four months to sign the papers. After signing the papers he wanted me to meet him.
Avatar f tn Definitely talk to a lawyer but you can give the baby any name you want.
Avatar f tn The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
Avatar f tn I have previously posted under the question of whether I should separate from my husband. Well l I did and he will be served divorce papers in two weeks. I have a further complicating issue now. I started seeing someone shortly after hiring my lawyer (basically shortly after my decision to divorce.) It was not at all planned and it is a friend I knew long ago who suddenly came back into my life. We are great together, when we have time to see each other.
373360 tn?1302831864 I have been with my husband 4 yrs now married for 1yr we have a 10 month old together and i have a 6yrs old from a previous relationship. About 3 wks ago i was checking his Voice mail and heard an unfamilair woman's voice on his voice mail i called the women back who told me that she has been with since Jan and didn't know he was married. when I asked him about her he denied everything.
Avatar f tn But anyways I filed for divorce and served him the papers but now it’s like I don’t know what to feel. Like I’m glad to be getting a divorce but now i don’t know what to feel about him. Do I love him as a friend or what? I don’t know. Anyway if someone went through something similar some advice would be great. Thank you.
Avatar n tn You may have to petition the court or he might willingly give it to you once you serve him with divorce papers. He will not want to go to court to give you the alimony so he might give it to you. I understand your health problems as I had panic too, but its all gone since I left him. Im in the process of divorce now and I am entitled to half of everything, and so are you. Just try to find someone to help you move out. If you have no one, contact a place like Catholic Charities.
Avatar f tn I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.
Avatar n tn Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.
Avatar f tn First...thank you ladies for all the feedback. Update: I did tell my lawyer that I'm pregnant and that it's not my soon to be ex husbands. My lawyer wrote up the settlement and cleverly noted that I'm pregnant ...not with his child and in a way that my ex won't know that I'm expecting. It's legal and my ex won't find out through the divorce papers or at all if I can help it. I did all that worrying for nothing and you all are great for the support!!!
Avatar n tn I am going through my first cycle of IVF, and my partner and I would like to donate any "extra" embryos for stem cell research. Does anyone know who we donate them too? I can't find any info online. All I can find is embryo donation for people looking to have a baby, and though I find that a very nice thought, we are not comfortable with the idea that our child will have siblings out there that we don't know. Any info would be great. Thanks!
10707428 tn?1415569790 I say go ahead and move, then your baby will be a citizen of that country. And what type of man or father does that make him to kick out his pregnant wife and right before the baby is born. I say pack your bag and get your ticket. Don't tell him anything. Just go. But first get the divorce papers. Sign them and file them. No one can claim the baby cause the baby isn't here yet. Do this before you leave. Make it easy so you don't have to stay.
Avatar f tn When you go into labor and have to fill out papers, do you right your babies name or tell them?
Avatar f tn A wk or so ago I posted that I'm in the process of getting a divorce and my current bf is my baby's father. My lawyer advised that he would have to put in my divorce papers that I'm pregnant but I didn't want my ex to find out or he won't be cooperative....to make this short, I asked if I should get another lawyers opinion and the majority response was yes so I did and my new lawyer didn't even ask if I was currently pregnant so I didn't say anything.
Avatar f tn Soo..I had this happen. Basically I couldn't stand my now exhusband while I was pregnant..but it was because of a huge number of things that were going on. What he said, what he did, how he acted, etc. I waited until we had our second child and still kept trying to make it work even though I couldn't stand him more times than not. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and it was obvious that it was unhealthy so I left him.
Avatar m tn well in short, i am legally seperated and went through the divorce proceedings and am waiting on the divorce papers now. i am in the military so i cant ask for a test since it still shows that i am married (i could get in a lot of trouble.) i had a few sexual partners and all with condoms. the last girl we had sex for maybe a week and there were no problems, also with a condom. the pool finally opened on base and i decided to go. after a couple of days of swimming there was nothing there.
1481358 tn?1288295091 Pills make me sad thats why I quit. Im signing divorce papers on friday and Im very sad about it. Bad timing but perfect timing. In my mind I play out the whole thing. Fight, sign papers get mad and sad then dont care and call for some pills. I wont. I am finding some strength. Im feeling sad and thats ok. I want that. I dont want to cover all this up cause it will come back to haunt me. Drugs cost me my marriage, kinda. Always two stories.
4437866 tn?1388119624 Here in Australia custody rights happen with the divorce usually (its in our divorce papers) but it can happen at any time if the need arises, just means more money and lawyer/court costs. And like mizzztaylor said, unless they are adopted they still have to pay child support, don't let him get out of that one, thats what alot of these men try to do, think if they have nothing to do with them they won't have to pay for them.
Avatar f tn The following link is a live web cam on an eagle's nest here in Iowa. There's also a place to click to see pictures taken 2 min apart throughout a day...shows the mom feeding the 3 babies, etc. http://www.raptorresource.org/falcon_cams/index.
Avatar f tn After the baby is born go get papers at the court house for an uncontested divorce with no children and if they ask its not his. It may sound kind of like on the Maury show but if u ou truly believe he will bring nothing but hardship on the baby erase him from the situation. Sometimes you have to play dirty to protect your baby. thete are great men out there who will love your baby. I didn't think so until I found my guy. If you don't mind me asking what state are you from?
Avatar f tn I am in the process of talking to a lawyer to divorce my husband. We've been separated for about 8 months, I found out after being with him almost 10yrs that he has a thing for young call girls. I've moved on to another relationship and I'm 19w 5d. My lawyer is telling me that be has to put that I'm pregnant in the divorce papers but I don't think it's any of my ex's business.
Avatar n tn A divorce doesn't happen in a day - what actually happened they day you say you you divorced your wife? You told her you wanted to divorce? You went to see a lawyer, or had divorce papers presented to her? Until they day the legal process is complete (and I don't know where you live, so what the process is there or how long it takes) then you are not divorced, and you can stop that process at any time. Do you WANT to divorce your wife? Does she want to be divorced from you?
Avatar n tn I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.
Avatar m tn I recently learned that my wife has started drinking again after 10 years of sobriety. She is a high level professional and historically a high functioning alcoholic. There are several concerns I have. 1. When my wife drinks she seeks attention from men and gives signs that she is available. Self admits she is seeking validation from men. This has led to very bad and painful events. 2.