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Lately theres just been so much family drama thats been going on and I cant take it anymore. My in laws absolutely hate me and now they r turning my husband against me too. I just dont know what to do anymore. Im just so tired. And my husband said if I tell anyone anything he'll leave me. I know he loves me still but I just dont know y he's listening to his family. His family keeps telling him things that r wrong or things that will make him hate me. Im just so tired.
m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.
i dont think that its unfair... its actually very considerate of you, alot of times people dont take the time to talk the kids about how they are feeling about things, especially in this kinda of situation. at 8 and 10 i think that their opinions should have a very strong effect on Most of the decisions made by you and your ex wife.
I have been wanting to leave my husband for several months now. And he is on to me that I'm seeing someone. Which I have been.
But every time I tell him I don't want to be with him anymore, he forces our love for me to love him and I don't. I love him in a caring way but not an intimate way. Hes a type of person who gets hurt very easily, and I want to know how bad of an idea would it be if I told him I had been seeing someone for 7 months?....
It actually depends on where you live. What your state laws are. My state, for example, is an at will employment state. (I think that's the term) they can and will fire you for anything. They can say I don't like the color of your shoes, you're fired. Make sure you look up the laws for your state.
In the divorce paperwork they will set visitation. Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.
It would affect custody rights but seeing your children are raised that is not an issue. This is how it is in Canada, and our divorce laws are similar I think. I bought a book on law and divorce when I went through mine. It was enlightening to say the least.
We were **** poor broke so there wasn't a lot of marital assets. I did threaten him with all I would do to him if he didn't pay for the lawyer for the divorce though. So at least I got $1000 out of the dead beat.
She is now bored and wants to have hobbies that are not here. She wanted a divorce. We talked and decided on counseling. Befeore we could get there, I received info and confirmed some of her other activities which involve onther person. I'm not going to spell it out, I think you know what I mean. Now we have this wonderful baby boy who is caught in this. I don't know what to do!!
My husband wants to get a divorce and says it's over, he asked me to make a choice , either leaving the house or he will leave, I don't think Iam in the right mental state to be able to handle the houses responsibilities right now, so that means I wld have to go to my mothers where my little sis is an active alcoholic and her friend is also who lives there with her, I just don't know what' the right choice is for me.
Ignorance I know first hand cause my n laws really wreck my nerves. Most days I'm stuck hollering at kids and I don't understand I will shut my door and lock it some me time. Everyone beats down my door if I'm sleep and don't answer they will call my phone 1000 times annoying as hell. This is my first child but they expect for me to get up every morning get my nephew ready for school and take him but I quit after him missing a few days they got the picture.
I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue,
I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..
Yup happens to me ,I used to be able to eat anything and before pregnancy loved veggies ,but i the other day I tried eating a pepper I couldn't even finish because I started gagging .
We all knew my brother loved us and he knew we loved him. I'm just so sad that i couldn't say goodbye. It just seems so unfair when someone young is swept away suddenly. It's 15 weeks since his sudden passing, and i feel an unrelenting dull agony. My only comfort comes when i feel god's presence and recall our cherished memories together.
i also got hpv from the first person i loved so much and who i lost my virginity to. i also felt like it wasnt fair but i never blamed him because i knew it wasnt his fault. after i told him he felt so bad and he was mad because he had given me this horrible virus that i am going to have for the rest of my life. it has been two years since i found out and i dont think about it much anymore. i guess its because i found someone who never judged me for having it and was always ok with it.
I feel like my child is getting unfair treatment and it really hurts me bc I feel like I'm letting her down and she's not even here yet.
my boyfriend whos getting a divorce in march comes from a very rich family whos crazy about having kids on their side. my boyfriends mother put it in her sons head to divorce his wife and take their son. the mother has no contact with the kid anymore. my boyfriend got his wife into drugs and thats what they hold agaisnt her. i dont get along with my boyfriends parents at all because they think im a gold digger.
The problem is about EXPECTATIONS!! We expect too much from our in laws at the time of pregnancy. We want them to care us like our mother n father but we have to remember they are our in laws not our real parents. Our parents gave so much love to us so we expect same from others. I used to feel same when I am still 35 weeks pregnant but now I am used to it and expect less from my MIL..
It is a major cause of marital anger, permissive parenting, addictive behaviors, infidelity, separation and divorce. Unless it is uncovered and addressed, selfishness will lead spouses to treat loved ones as objects and not as gifted persons.
This video segment describes the present cultural conflict of selfishness harming marriage, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juY0wNNVODw .
I am in the process of filling for divorce we have been seperated a long time i have been with my bf the dad since jan. I am due end of dec and was wondering if my divorce isnt finalized by then will there be any issues?
They were good with me in high school - because I moved in with them for a while until my husband and I got married. But now she is treating me like I don't know how to take care of my children. I DO! She didn't like it when her MIL did that but I k now her and she is a kind woman. My MIL still says negative things about her - why? I don't know. But I do know that she likes me and so does the other part of the family.
I've done a really stupid thing. See my father in law and mother in law are divorced but they are on good terms about it. My father in law has been dating this women for over a year, they have had a very rocky relationship. Despite that though when we go over there I talk with her a lot and were kinda close.
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