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Avatar f tn s physical and emotional safety to consider leaving this man. Divorce is a major operation, it is time consuming, emotionally difficult, financially difficult but again, maybe it is for the best that the second chances stop. Khatiz.
Avatar f tn t know how strong your faith is but the thing that had helped me and that is working is prayer. I was very close to a divorce a year ago and I ask God to help me fix it and he did. Now it didn't happen overnight but it did change and my husband is not the same man he was a year ago. Most of all it made things in my home livable and peaceful. There's also a book called the power of a praying wife that is awesome. I hope everything work's out for you and you're family.
202665 tn?1248806733 ve read in forums and my own situation...why do therapists often suggests splitting up/ending your personal relationships to concentrate on yourself and your issues? Though in some instances that may be sound advice...wouldn't splitting up - especially a marriage with kids tend to cause more issues?
Avatar f tn Hello. I am a teacher who is 29 years old. I am going throught a divorce. This past week has been the biggest mess ever. I had an affair on my husband. When he left, only a few months ago, the affair was still going on. I left the man that I was having an affair with because I instantly understood that it would never work. You see, he is a criminal and convicted sex offender. My parents would never accept him. But for some reason, I felt that I loved him. I really did.
Avatar m tn We live in SC and the divorce laws are sticky here. I am not sure how much a divorce will cost me or how I will deal with life being "single." The guy I am in a relationship with is in the army. It just gets more and more complicated. I am not sure what to do. I want to leave my husband to be with my boyfriend, but I am unsure of the unknown of what will happen once I tell my husband. I dont think I can tell him Im cheating on him bc my BF is in the army. Not sure how that works.
Avatar f tn I'm newly diagnosed with BP II. I feel confused & really bad for my most recent relationship. He won't talk to me anymore which is causing episodes. We work together so I occasionally run into him which also causes episodes. I'm afraid I'll never find someone who wants to be with me or if I do that I'll ruin the relationship. The last one was ruin mutually by both of us. I just wish I could stop obsessing about it.
Avatar f tn what advice can i give to someone who has been in jail for 5years and is scared of coming out he said he isnt scared of people its just getting out he says that he feels like all he knows is jail and that he feels like he belongs there.
1323549 tn?1276178147 Has anyone ever had a problem with your condition getting in the way of your relationships? This happend to me two years ago the day before we were suppose to move into our house together she had promised before hand that she wouldnt leave me because i was sick and i had to have another surgery and she split.. Im starting to think i will never find the right person? Am i just being depressed for no reason??
Avatar f tn I did not ask for advice on my sons mental health - that are what trained medical professionals, that were already consulted (as stated), are for. I did not ask for advice on my divorce or introducing a new partner - which apparently I caused & did too soon (did Mark even read what I wrote??) No. I asked for advice on BEHAVIOUR, and if anyone could advise on anything that has worked for them.
Avatar f tn My advice would be to test his boundaries slowly before you let it all hang out. You don't need to let him in on all your emotional problems right away. I'm sure you have many great qualities/attributes and it's advisable to let him see those before he sees the emotional instability. Some people are more equip than others to handle an emotionally unstable person.
Avatar f tn Sorry this is so long, I just really need advice on this... My husband and I have been married for almost a year now. We are also expecting our first child in March. He has always treated me great and makes sure I'm taken care of, but that's not the problem. We had agreed when we first started dating to set basic relationship boundaries for each other, like no lying, no cheating, no hiding things from each other, ect. One of my boundaries was that I didn't want him watching porn.
Avatar m tn But, I stopped by just to add that I agree with everyone else about the divorce. The advice I seen others get, and got from my dad [who is a recovering alcoholic] is that you shouldnt make any big life changes during this time. Focus on you and get yourself straight.
Avatar f tn re a single mom how did you manage to make time meeting new people and creating new relationships - not only with males (like a bf) but females too. I withdrew myself from everyone once I committed to my relationship of 10 years but yesterday we decided to part ways.
20892471 tn?1577707882 My husband has cheated on me after we've been together for almost 4 years... He said that he was drunk and it's not count as an affair. He also insisted on visiting family therapist, but I filed for divorce. anyway...There are three months passed already, yet I'm still depressed. Should I saved those relationships? For me, cheating is the point where you can't rebuild back your trust in partner. I have to move forward but I don't know how...
773464 tn?1246838035 No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.
Avatar f tn Im in my early twenties, approximately 9 weeks and all me and my boyfriend seem to do is argue nowadays. Any advice?
1383825 tn?1315232262 Wow! That's gutsy...I love it. Do you have kids? I'll just caution you: if you leave and he wants to get really pissy,he can call a lawyer and file for divorce on the grounds of abandonment. I've seen it happen and it's ugly. But you've got moxie!! I'd start doing little things like getting your own bank account,credit cards etc...stop cooking,doing laundry,shopping etc...and if you have a guest room,sleep there. But,if the house etc...
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar f tn I think that is particularly hard when you are having a baby and wanting to plan and be excited about it. Here is my best advice, leave the relationship alone for now. You are going to bring a baby into the world and that is a huge deal. You need to be mentally prepared for motherhood and this on and off is just distracting you from that. I, to be safe, would plan on his not being around when you have the child and you being on your own.
Avatar n tn Oh no no no. This is NOT good. First, you are not in love with someone that you speak with on line and do not see. You are in love with the idea of being in love with him. You are unhappy in your marriage and escaping by having this "emotional affair". It is not the right thing to do and I will tell you that relationships that overlap don't go well. The statistics for relationships that start before ending the one before it have over a 90% failure rate. Why?
Avatar f tn Hi! You sound exactly like me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4years and weve broken up 3 times. Its really hard trying to get your relationship to move forward. The best thing I've found to work was I started seeing a counselor and learning how to Agrue with my boyfriend effectively without accusing or yelling. I aslo went to see my doctor because I have GAD and OCD. I been on prozac and it helps. BUT the best thing you can do is start concentrating on yourself...
10707428 tn?1415569790 My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?
Avatar f tn Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.
5111430 tn?1377663221 s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?
Avatar f tn There is a guy I like and he is getting a divorce. It's only been about 2 months into the process, how soon can I say something? I know him through a business I go to. Would be be fine to send a card and just state that I am sorry about the stress he is dealing with at this time and that I hope everything works out well for him? I have plans to take up lunch for his staff as I have often done things of this nature over the years. What are your thoughts?