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No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

We just moved to PA last summer and i have noone to talk to and he decides to leave to ny this morning and been out all day. I cried my butt of on the phone and he seemed to turn it around on him. Idk what to do i need to be strong for my girls my 1 year old and am almost 36 weeks i cant take the pain. Im feeling like he just do t care right now. Idk if my hormones are playing with me but the feeling is real and i just cant take it. Almost midnight and his still 3 hours away in another state.

I broke up with we argue to much we don't get along I don't trust him.

I have had depression and anxiety since age 18 so dont think its just cause of divorce..not living w husband has brought more peace to my life. but of course divorce the legal part is stressful I have read and read...Dr says maybe I may be bi-polar type 2..along w the anxiety depression which I guess is part of bi-polar 2...so why am I not on seroquel (sp?) also I have been on xanax ( prescribed by family dr) for years since I was early twentys I am 48 now) ..

Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.

If just kinda weirds me out that yes she could have her dad's last name, but that his ex would too. Like she would have my daughters last name.

45 days prior to me returning to the states at the end of the contract she filed for divorce and never even talked with me about it. I did not know until paperwork was in hand 2 weeks after it was filed in the court. I returned to the states and I am living apart from the family. There was no communication for over 4 weeks all went through attorneys while I stood with my jaw on the ground wondering what happened.

To me it seems theres a bigger underlying issue and both of u need to sit down and camly talk about how u both feel and why u feel this way and how u both can make things work. Dont jump into wanting divorce just yet because wanting a divorce might be because of ur hormones. And frankly thats the easy way out. Both of you need to work on this relationship and also compromise.

my husband started drinking heavily and we used to fight alot he used to get agressive and try to start arguments and of course the angrier i got the more heated the fights would get but it was only on his days off and at home i never really thought about separation or divorce because he was still providing even though he drank and we would fight nonstop he never stopped being responsible with the bills and i think that unless a man is cheating anything can be fixed i know its different when yo

Hey, I remember you! B/C I love your screen name!!!! One thing I have learned is that "life" does still happen, wether we want to participate or not! I am a firm believer that nothing stays down forever! Things might look dim now, but I would bet in 30 days, they'll be different, if not better! Don't let this kind of crap deter you from what is most important......your being clean! You will win this if that is the most important thing you stick to.

I should probably seek a therapy but thought I'd see if I'd get people perhaps that feel the same way. I'm going through a really difficult time I'm 13weeks and 5 days pregnant which I'm really excited about however I'm 21 years old and got married beginning of December and feel that I rushed into a realshionship and marriage really fast. And got pregnant all to quick.

My son is having a tremendously hard time adjusting to the divorce and continually is creating a caustic environment for me and my daughter. I spend 90% of my time trying to mollify him and parent out of fear. There is hardly anything left for my daughter and she is beginning to resent it and act out. My son is in therapy. I am in therapy. My daughter visits the school counselors. It is an unbearable existence. Might anyone have some helpful advice?

Are you just separating or divorce? My parents separated for a year when I was a child. Back then in NY you had to be separated for some time before you started divorce proceedings, anyway, my dad realized what he was loosing and ended up reconciling with my mom. That was 23 years ago. Not saying it is always the case but there is always hope. But if she wants out you need to let her go and work things out in her heart and mind alone for now.

t understand is how i can go from feeling totally normal and never having problems at all with anxiety to feeling far from normal and having problems with anxiety everyday. Is my divorce the trigger for this? My divorce was such a big change in my life and i thought that maybe my anxiety could be coming from this and my reaction to the divorce.

I'm a young mother of one and two on the way. I haven't had a permanent home since high school so about 5 years now. The father's of my children want nothing to do with us both left me within my first trimester. I'm in a shelter now for a second time unsure of what to do. I'm so scared of losing ny children they're all I have to keep me going. I've tried to get help but everyone seems to not care. I'm not close to my family because they hold onto the past.

Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!

During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.

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