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Do you have another kid with him or are you pregnant with his only kid right now?

Hi...me and my husband are both in the Coast Guard and we both have very demanding jobs. I have a back injury so I work from 7-4 M-F and then I come home to my 6 month old daughter. My husband works 2 days on duty (48 complete hours) 2 days off and every other weekend. Plus, they are sending him to school for 2 weeks next week. So, he is never home. I am having a back procedure done next week and I have to do it, no rescheduling.

1. You dont marry into the military. You marry someone in the military.. 2 military life is hard? Yes, for the service member. Bc you my dear aren't in the military.. 3. You shouldnt have cheated. Cant handled being married? Get a divorce. Wanna bang other people? Get a divorce FIRST...4. People are going to talk. It was ****** up. And now its public.. if u wanted a quiet private life stay with one guy.. and 5... you ended up on "**** My LPO said" online..

t want to pile on a ton of weight, there are physical requirement s for me to stay in. Anyone else on here military and got advice?

m going through a much needed divorce, it should be final in September when I get my divorce decree. The DF and I are living here in Iowa as of now, but as soon as my divorce is final I am wanting to move back home to Michigan. However moving costs a lot of money these days, especially when moving out of state. I don't know what would be best for my family at this point.

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

My baby's dad is in the military and lives in another country from me he had booked flights to come on my due date but the army has told him he has to go away that date for training so he's rebooked flights for 5 days after my due date ...I'm really upset that he's more than likely gonna miss the birth but also does anyone know what happens about the signing of birth certificate??...any military mums or anyone that had the baby dad be away for the birth go any advice????

I would officially divorce as THAT relationship is obviously over. And if he wants to make you his official signficant other, you could move to base housing with him???? Then if he is deployed---- you just hope he is back home for the birth or sometime there after. I'm sure HE knows about the structure of his job, right? What does he say? Does he want to make you his official partner now that you two are having a baby?

My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

s so happy with me to my face he recently told me hes not ready for marriage. He gets out of the military in a month I still have another year in the military. He said he wants to go back to his hometown( the same place all these women are at) I'm almost 6mos pregnant and he's leaving me. I'm so angry. I'm so angry at him and all these women who still talk to him knowing were married and I'm pregnant! Why are these women doing this to me? Why is he?

If u file for divorce and file for custody, because he is active duty military u will automatically get custody and no state can make u stay where ur not from. Being an ex military wife and now military fiancee, and watching my fiancee lose his daughters cuz he's active duty military. If u want ur child to be a resident of Illinois u should try and have ur child there.

The first piece of advice that I will give is never, ever, in a million bazillion years believe what a recruiter says. The second piece of advice is don't lie about it if you are asked in person or on a questionnaire, unless you are in training to be a recruiter.

I am 22 weeks preggo with our second and our daughter is 4. I just need support. He is in the military and I work full time. I just don't know how a so called man can just leave his family because he's had enough and doesn't want it anymore. I have to work and this is so hard. All I want to do is hold my daughter and be with my family. We live here in NC and all my family is in Texas. This just really *****. I'm sorry for venting but I just need support for my babies and myself.

My husband had an MRI a few weeks ago and the nurse told him that parts of his brain is coming out of the back of his skull because his brain was "too big." A military nurse was the person to deliver this delicate news so that at least explains the tact. We will not be able to see a neurologist until at least at the end of this month and we are both understandably worried.

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

I got pregnant by a married man he is in the military (army) he was supposedly getting a divorce. We would go clubbing together just to get over exs anyways one night I got super drunk and ended up getting pregnant. Now im all happy/depress/sad. The wife and her sister just keep telling me don't go and make a big deal because he'll loose his job and you won't get sh*t. Im really mad because I can't file for childsupport until im 6 months. im burly 3 months.

Glad to hear Ur husbands home safe n sound and congrats on the pregnancy. I am also a military spouse and I'm pregnant with me n my husbands second daughter. He will be missing the birth and has missed most my pregnancy and same thing happened with my first child. So when he gets back things are very fast pace at home between a new baby a 4yr old coming back to the states the time change an in general reajusting to normal life.

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

t know if that is different for military or not. Plus that would be better because when you file for divorce after the baby is here they will automatically calculate in child support based on what he makes in the military plus require him to still provide medical.

Any mommas or mommas to be military. My husband is in the army and is scheduled to leave on a year long deployment about 6 weeks after my due date. I know I am lucky he is going to be here for the Birth of our second child, but I am nervous about being a "single" mom with two children under the age of two and I am planning on returning to work around 8 weeks post partum. Wondering if any mothers out there have any words of wisdom, advice, or helpful tips.

I have had depression and anxiety since age 18 so dont think its just cause of divorce..not living w husband has brought more peace to my life. but of course divorce the legal part is stressful I have read and read...Dr says maybe I may be bi-polar type 2..along w the anxiety depression which I guess is part of bi-polar 2...so why am I not on seroquel (sp?) also I have been on xanax ( prescribed by family dr) for years since I was early twentys I am 48 now) ..

Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.

He has PTSD was serving in the military and is now on disability leave. So basically has allot of time on his hands. He was so kind to me but I lied to him from the get go. I told him I was single, no kids and much younger than what I actually was. I did it cause I thought he was a safe bet being so far in OK…not realizing how hard I will fall for him later on…I wasn’t looking for sex. I was looking to find someone to have a more intimate conversations with.

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