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773464 tn?1246838035 No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.
10707428 tn?1415569790 My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?
Avatar n tn I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.
Avatar f tn Okay so my parents have bein married for 40 years and there getting a divorce. Right now I live next door to my mom and shes taking the divorce really hard and has several nerve problems (she never leaves her house) and she really doesnt have any friends.
Avatar f tn my husband started drinking heavily and we used to fight alot he used to get agressive and try to start arguments and of course the angrier i got the more heated the fights would get but it was only on his days off and at home i never really thought about separation or divorce because he was still providing even though he drank and we would fight nonstop he never stopped being responsible with the bills and i think that unless a man is cheating anything can be fixed i know its different when yo
Avatar f tn Thank you ladys..just really needed some outside advice..
Avatar f tn m going through a much needed divorce, it should be final in September when I get my divorce decree. The DF and I are living here in Iowa as of now, but as soon as my divorce is final I am wanting to move back home to Michigan. However moving costs a lot of money these days, especially when moving out of state. I don't know what would be best for my family at this point.
Avatar f tn My husband wants to get a divorce and says it's over, he asked me to make a choice , either leaving the house or he will leave, I don't think Iam in the right mental state to be able to handle the houses responsibilities right now, so that means I wld have to go to my mothers where my little sis is an active alcoholic and her friend is also who lives there with her, I just don't know what' the right choice is for me.
Avatar f tn Few days ago she came to my house and had a fight with my husband (her son) she basically thinks the world of her older son and becomes rude to my husband because we dont give her that much money but shes a women who like a pro goes wher the money is and she mks u think shes ur friend but if u go against her she will talk about u aswel.
Avatar f tn Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.
5111430 tn?1377663221 s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?
Avatar f tn Unfortantly my friends and sister lives in another country in north so help isnt near. And we live in a small room in a house shared so there is no peace or another place in the house I can go to take a break. I know that things will probably be more diffecault if we get a divorce. But if I cant see some changes I dont have a choise.
Avatar f tn Pain pills, illegal substance and porn. He doesn't work bec of an injury only I do. We have no connection anymore. I found his stash tonight that he's been hiding. He waits for me to go to sleep then uses and watches porn all night. On top of that he tells me he's in so much pain and is always popping hydros. I can't do this anymore but I can't lose my house and have nowhere to go. He has always told me I'm never going anywhere. I belong to him.
Avatar f tn m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.
Avatar n tn Hi there I have been seperated for 6 months, going through the trials of a complicated divorce.. I have a 10yr old son who went through angry outburts a couple of months ago as he did not want to see his father (his father hit him in anger on a visit), through counsellors recomendation I told my son that he did not have to visit with him until he was ready to see him.. Since then his outbursts have stopped and he seems much happier in himself..
548642 tn?1266179652 i know that this may not be the place to post my problem but being i consider all of yall my friends whos option i value very much i need some advice! my husband told me today to get all my stuff and get out! heres what happened.....he has turned into what i call an alcoholic and last night he went out and was suppose to be home by supper time well that never happened he ended up at the bar and 3 am he called me and told me all his friends were coming over to hang out!
Avatar m tn Looking to see if anyone has any experience/advice. I am a little over a month clean (feels good to say that) anyways will try and make a long story short. My wife and I abused pills for most of our marriage. We tried multiple times to get clean together but continued to fail. As time passed lies and deception built up beyond repair. We made the decision to separate and pursue divorce. We have 2 kids, a lot of the reason we stuck it out so long.
Avatar f tn Hi Rose, I'm sorry you're in such a tough spot. It's hard to give advice in this sort of situation not knowing the whole story. Are you truly done with him and just want a divorce? If that's the case then the best advice I can think of would be to talk to an attorney. If you would rather he cleaned up and got a job then I'd ask have you tried to get him to get help? Have you told him that you're fed up and ready to leave unless he gets clean etc?
Avatar f tn OMG cant' blive my bro-in-law is here n' staying with us. he is now creating problms for me. n' i hate it. I been very much hurt by my husband in the past. (n' with his parents too) now with his 18-19yr old brother acting as hez the bozz of the house n' im the servert for him. My parents never raised me to be like this. I want him to go back to his country insted of ruining my peace n' my life. Please Pray with me !!!. Hope God will hear our prayers soon.
Avatar f tn t do it again only for me to discover him doing it again. I threatened divorce and asked him to be separated and let his parents know. Am at my parents house but do not want to be a burden on them. I work with my husband and I have my money invested into the business. Now if I leave him he won't return me a penny and I honestly can't bear to be stressed and be with a person who dont respect me.
1103110 tn?1341254499 I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.
Avatar f tn I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..
10185128 tn?1410802667 I'm five weeks with my amazing boyfriend who I only met 6 months ago I left a marriage in which I wasn't happy I'm only 21 and was married for 2 years but I had to move back in with my dad untill my boyfriend and I get our own place I am terrified to tell my dad because to him I might as well still be a baby in his eyes. And really want to wait until my boyfriend and I are out of his house so there won't be so much tension in the house any advice?
599170 tn?1300973893 I have had depression and anxiety since age 18 so dont think its just cause of divorce..not living w husband has brought more peace to my life. but of course divorce the legal part is stressful I have read and read...Dr says maybe I may be bi-polar type 2..along w the anxiety depression which I guess is part of bi-polar 2...so why am I not on seroquel (sp?) also I have been on xanax ( prescribed by family dr) for years since I was early twentys I am 48 now) ..
Avatar f tn If you are serious about a divorce and you own the house, get the divorce, lock his stuff outside, and then have the police escort him away if he won't leave.
Avatar f tn Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.
Avatar n tn I am currently going through a divorce and have a 2 1/2 year old boy. We are trying our best to minimize the effects that the porcess will have on our child. I have been told that it is recommended that the child stay in one house on all schoold days. Does this really have an effect on the child? What if we all ways trasfer his sleeping animals with him? What are some of your suggestions. I am trying to have equal time custody.
373360 tn?1302831864 I have been with my husband 4 yrs now married for 1yr we have a 10 month old together and i have a 6yrs old from a previous relationship. About 3 wks ago i was checking his Voice mail and heard an unfamilair woman's voice on his voice mail i called the women back who told me that she has been with since Jan and didn't know he was married. when I asked him about her he denied everything.