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I have been with my husband 4 yrs now married for 1yr we have a 10 month old together and i have a 6yrs old from a previous relationship. About 3 wks ago i was checking his Voice mail and heard an unfamilair woman's voice on his voice mail i called the women back who told me that she has been with since Jan and didn't know he was married. when I asked him about her he denied everything.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..

Hi, I need some advice and can't believe there are others in the same boat and I need an opinion of someone who isn't close to me. I have been married for 4years and together for 8 with no children. We were really happy in the beginning, lots of excitement, we starting living together after 4mths and then bought a house together. Got married after 4years. I am 26years old now and my husband is 42..he rescued me from a bad relationship and I guess I feel I owe him.

My boyfriend is going threw a custody/divorce battle right now. His crazy x thought if she convinced the court I wasn't safe to be around their daughter we would have to split up. He gets her every other weekend and goes to his mom's so he didn't get held in contempt. She is trying to get him for adultery even tho he has evidence against her admitting to seeking herself for money while they retire together not including she left him for another man.

Also another way you can speak to a jag officer judge advocate general officer which for us is the ones who specializes in military law like a lawyer also you can speak with his chain of command and them know the situation but here is the treacky part about it his chain of command can go about the situation in many ways they can get him for adultery or make him help you thru your pregnancy and wait for DNA then get him on adultery by the way what is his rank???

s not back in the day when you cheat you have to walk around with a scarlet letter or made to leave town for committing adultery. Although, you can say a punishment would be, hurting someone who loves you, taking away the trust and now having to be under a microscope. Losing someone who loved you, losing your family, if there are children involved. Divorce. Losing someone who was your best friend. Losing respect from the person who once trusted you. 2.

Moral is unless your marriage is abusive, never take divorce and indulge in adultery.........

and if he isnt legally divorced yet then it could screw him over while getting his divorce. she could file for adultery and get everything she wants. I just personally just think facebook is a mess starter if i were in your situation i wouldnt have done it but thats totally up to you. i hope you have a good outcome and hope your boyfriend dont get pissed or disappointed with you!

You are both committing adultery, because he is still legally married. Once he get's a divorce then I will be able to give you good advice, because right now, you are the other woman with absolutely no right to her issues.

There's this old priest who got sick of all the people in his parish who kept confessing to adultery. One Sunday, in the pulpit, he said, "if I hear one more person confess to adultery, I'll quit!" Well, everyone liked him, so they came up with a code word. Someone who had committed adultery would say they had "fallen". This seemed to satisfy the old priest and things went well, until the priest died at a ripe old age.

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

I would agree that if you need to divorce your husband, and he needs to divorce his wife, then after a respectful amount of time (for the children), you could try a relationship with your old boyfriend. What you did was wrong, by initiating a personal relationship behind your spouses backs, I wonder how you both would feel should the shoe be on the other foot?

My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

I am glad that you have realised that it was your wife, that you cared for, because just think what would have happenend if you had got a divorce, and found yourself with one you really did not care for, i agree with mami, i see no reason to tell your wife, just do not stray again, also i would like for you to comment on my journal of hopes and dreams, i think you and your wife both will find it quite interesting, you know you jave done wrong and have to live with it, but i think in the long run

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

I also thought about all those people who have committed adultery or are committing adultery now and can actually see the dark side to adultery and the back lash. I always advise the adultery is poison to the very core or foundation of the family unit and let this be an example of the negative side of adultery.

I never masturbated in my life even after watching adultery movies. I request you to suggest good remedy and some tips to overcome with such and lead a healthy life. I am 21 years old and this issue is since 4-5 years and i am bit worried about this nigh falls. this happens everyday or twice a day My friends advised me if this thing is continuously happens there will be an affect upon body and future. I am so shamed to confer this to a doctor.

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

Hi! I need some advice my Mother in law is a mistress and sometimes she bring her bf in our house (she lives with us) I always talk to my husband that he needs to tell her Mom that she should stop bringing that Ugly boy in our house or else we live separately from her Mother. I know that's rude and because he don't have father the only family member left is her mother.

You are married 9 yrs. doesn't that mean anything and you have a son that you and your husband have to set an example and teach him moral values. Infidelity is poison and destructive to the very core of the family unit. A cheater is dishonest, selfish, untrustworthy, lacks moral values, hurtful, selfserving, disrespectful and nobody wins in the long run and if married it's adultery.

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