I haven't been on MH much lately....I miss being on here, but I've been avoiding it because it reminds me of what I have to face. My husband's been drinking again. He was sober for about 3 months and he "fell off the wagon," like he said. I told him, "Honey, you didn't fall off, you jumped off and sold the darn wagon." When this man starts drinking again, he doesn't have a slip and then sober up again, he keeps drinking.