There's a heck of a lot of stuff - most everything, in my opinion - that we don't have any control over
. The only control we really have is over
ourselves. And you have control over
your attitude. You can choose to continue lamenting your loss and suffering, or you can choose to pick yourself up and work on your attitude toward your loss. Just think of all the wonderful times you had, the lessons your parents taught you, how grateful you must be for them passing on so much to you.