dealing with death with no will

You have been through a great deal,not only did you lose your brother in such a tragic way you didnt grieve as you had to be strong for him,now 2 years on you are feeling the sadness the fear and the loss,it is only natural what you are going through,you need to grieve properly,you will never get over this but maybe with help and support you will be able to ease the hurt and learn to cope with the fears that you haveat the moment,please ask about speaking to a theripist about this my thoughts ar

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

This is what I am dealing with, on top of everything else! I will take comfort in this forum; you are all so great and helpful. I also hope that I can give back to those that have questions. You all are now my family! Thank you SO much for reading; I just have so much going on.........

All we can do is detach ourselves and allow them to feel the consequences of their substance abuse. No calling the boss with excuses; no excuses of any kind to anyone as a matter of fact. If he doesn't show to family functions, tell them the truth. Anything you do that makes life easier for him to use needs to stop. We can't rescue them from themselves. All we can do is protect ourselves the best way we can. Hear this loud and clear: his addiction is NOT your fault!

Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

t any pain or tears in heaven, God Bless You. Grief also comes in waves so it will always come and go you will deal with it in your own unique style. Good Luck.

Welcome to the forum..I ahve no experience w/ meth, but this will bump you up tothe top....others will be along. Good luck and keep posting!!

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

Can I deal with this, or am I going to run from it?

Shut off our phones and mourned our babies death. We went to this nice winery with a beautiful river that ran by it and at sunset picked a flower for every week of our babies life with us in my belly and sent them down the river with thoughts and prayers of that journey. I don't know if it will help you but it at least gave me some closure. It's such a hard thing to go threw. I understand.

You will find a group of individuals who can totally relate to you and will be a great face to face support. Wishing you the very best!

Anyone else having issues dealing with BD? I decided that i wanted my baby to have my last name, or even hyphenate the name so it has both of our last names. (We arent married and idk if we will survive living together) and he FLIPPED OUT. since then hes refused to tell me he loves me and im trying to remind myself that he does and hes just mad. Anyone else having problems?

You will get through this. It will never go away but it will gey easier. I wish you the best of luck going forward.

All the research in the world trying to find genetic determinants for alcoholism and, for that matter, drug addiction, have never determined a genetic cause per se, and never will. There is no gene in the human being that determines we are “doomed” to drink/drug our lives into oblivion. Unique genetics, life stressors, family and social stressors, improper nutritional intake and other factors affect biochemistry/neurochemistry.

I just realized that my fiancee has a serious case of hording disorder which also shows some typical traits of OCD and panic dissorder. I realized it too late (because naturaly she didn't let me see her appartement). So since I didn't knew, I wanted to marry her and SHE IS RIGHT NOW IN THE PROCESS OF MOVING IN WITH ME INCLUDING BRINGING ALL HER JUNK WITH HER! So I need help! What can I do? It's no question that I cannot let this happen.

I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.

She then tried to invite herself here for Easter to which I said no I will tell you when you can come but it will be on MY terms. My dad even had a talk w her about her overwhelming me and respecting my wishes. But today she is posting on fb that she just so happens to be passing through my state on a road trip and she hopes "I can make myself available". It's like a repeated guilt trip and she won't take no for an answer.

This is difficult for both you and your husband. I am 44 and have had fibro for at least 12yrs. It's important to be really honest about how you both feel, because he will also be greiving the "old"you for a period of time. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, but that he (just like you) will mourn for the things you can no longer do together.

The nights were the absolute worse for me and all the scrubbing, I was actually able to sleep fitfully but some sleep, it will get better it will just take time.

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