Dealing with death with children
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I was wondering if there is anyone out there dealing with children concerning bipolar. I have 7 year old grandson that is om foclin but has stomach problems and recently the diagnosis is leaning more toward bipolar and has been put on a mood stabilizer tryleptal 300mg half in the morning and a whole pill at night. Anyone with any information please share with a concerned grandmother.
As the mother of three children I cannot begin to imagine the heartache and loss. I know that with the loss of other family members, it changes you somewhat. I think that when you lose someone that you loved with all your heart there is a part of you that goes with them and never returns. You learn to go forward as a different you. To have that be compounded by the loss being a child is simpy unfathomable to me. So very very sorry!
I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.
Oh wow what awful things to hear..i havent dealt with it myself but its really sad to see racism still exists in this day and age..racist people are patethic and need to pitied if you ask me,screw em they arent worth it hun,we cant control ignorant people...nobody is born a racist its something thats taught and shame on those people...best thing you can do is just focus on your children and raise them to rise above such ignorance..
Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.
I have a friend who lost his wife a few months ago to cancer and is having a very hard time dealing with it. Yesterday I received another email from him (I live 300 miles away) and following is an excerpt of that email;
" I"m not doing very well with this situation here. I don't know how people survive the sadness, loneliness, pain & guilt. My daughter said, why do you feel guilty, dad? I told her it's because she's dead,and I'm not.
Im very sorry for your loss, but please remember that you have gained a beautiful guardian angel. Iy is hard but remember that when the time is right you will have another baby to have for the rest of your life. Loosing a child is the worst thing a mother can deal with but just dont lose faith and remember you have someone looking after you and your family. Try and get your feelings out, there's nothing wrong with that, its part of coping with this.
Anyone else having issues dealing with BD? I decided that i wanted my baby to have my last name, or even hyphenate the name so it has both of our last names. (We arent married and idk if we will survive living together) and he FLIPPED OUT. since then hes refused to tell me he loves me and im trying to remind myself that he does and hes just mad. Anyone else having problems?
i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.
My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.
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