dealing with death stories

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

This is like having the flu everyday of your life. My two younger children are so fed up with my illness that they both now live with their father and no longer talk to me. That is very painful. I know where you're coming from and I understand how it feels when your family turns their back on you. I don't have the answers because I haven't been able to find them myself.

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.

Also I am wondering - I know hospice offers support to family members - is that support limited to just dealing with the patient or can other issues be discussed?

My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.

I felt like I was being rewarded for dealing with morning sickness.

the added pressure of giving updates, or dealing with someone hovering I knew would be too much to deal with, so, I only told those I knew would understand and support regardless if they understood. When those outside that small circle asked how I was I would reply...I am ok...hanging in...or not bad.... Vent here...let us be the support u need. Chiari makes us compensate to do daily activities others never give a second thought to....

I had a right side ablation in January 07 when my a-fib became more than I could handle. I should say here that I've had some sort of heart issue (pac's, pvc's, svt's, and just plain old irregular heartbeats) since the age of 29. I'll be 68 in November. (Hope this doesn't discourage all the young people out there with these problems) :-) The a-fib didn't start until 1998. For 10 months after the ablation, all was well except for the very occasional missed beat.

have we lost people as in have people passed on? Here is one of the problems with the internet if one day someone stop posting you really dont know what happen to them did they just leave did something happen .....you try not to worry about that and support everyone here the best you can.

Shut off our phones and mourned our babies death. We went to this nice winery with a beautiful river that ran by it and at sunset picked a flower for every week of our babies life with us in my belly and sent them down the river with thoughts and prayers of that journey. I don't know if it will help you but it at least gave me some closure. It's such a hard thing to go threw. I understand.

I was not being monitored by a doc so therefore there is no way of saying I was clinically dead or not but I believe I was on the brink of it or dealing with the process of it. I had had a virus and the Doc didn't do anything for it. I had just come back home and was told to walk it off. So I fought it and fought it. Drank a bunch of juice/fluids yet still seemed very sick. Went to bed.

Hello. I am an adult male, whose been married, and in a committed relationship for several years. I have never cheated on my wife, or my fiance (before we were married) or even my girlfriend (before we were engaged). I have absolutely 0 reason to believe she cheated on me either. I had a surgery a few years ago, and not long after (a few weeks) I noticed little bumps on my penis. They were on the shaft, close to the pubic area. I didn't really think anything of them.

I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.

m the only person with a spouse with addiction issues but the deep down thoughts.. Like is it me? Is it something I did? Or why does he lie to me? Like its always my fault.. I have lost sight of myself & my needs due to his addiction.. Like I had said my life is a roller coaster and some days are great some days are bad. It just depends on if he is using or not? When they are good I feel like we just sweep the problem under the rug & if I bring anything up its a fight.

Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

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