dealing with death loved one

s just a matter of convenience for the two of you. I hope she gets help dealing with her emotions so she can move on with a much happier life.

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

Hey I am very sorry to hear about your situation I lost my brother August 8th 2004 and it was the hardest thing I have dealt with I have had so many deaths close to me. I am suprised I am still alive everybody I love seems to die their are 5 stages to Grief Acceptance is the 5th so you seem to understanding now, counsling helps Grief supports groups just remembering the person and foucusing on the good times is a blessing. I got on drugs very badly, I am now a recoverying addict.

I also am responsible for sending cards to people in my church that are sick, depressed, stressed or mourning the loss of a loved one. Anything shared with me personally might be used on a card if I think it might be appropriate or helpful. Thank you for your input.

Hi everyone. I am a loved one of someone who binge smokes crack. He was a year clean until yesterday and never picked me up from work, texting me he was on his way, and then never showed, ignored my calls to finally shutting the phone off and now took the day off of work when he finally came home from this at 3am. We have been working so hard to rebuild out lives from the last time and now I feel like here we go again.

Is anyone experiencing grief from the loss of a loved one while pregnant and how are you handling it? We found out we are having a baby a month after my sister passed away.

We have another cat who is always wanting attention while she was more the type to come over once in awhile for a pet or a cuddle and then take off to sleep in her favourite basket. Maybe I should have done more to show her I loved her. Did she feel loved when she died? Was she afraid? I was lucky, however, this past couple months she had started greeting me at the door when I would come home from work which she never used to do. She started coming over for cuddles more.

I think that when you lose someone that you loved with all your heart there is a part of you that goes with them and never returns. You learn to go forward as a different you. To have that be compounded by the loss being a child is simpy unfathomable to me. So very very sorry!

Don't blame yourself for enabling him. It's something we family members fall into without hardly realizing it. I look at what addicts and their families endure over time and compare it to boiling frogs. It's so easy to ignore the signs of trouble and deny the problem that by the time we reach that point we wonder how our lives got turned upside down. It seems like the insanity happened overnight but it didn't.

In a horrible way---- my father in law had passed away that day and I was upstairs at bed time talking to my kids about his death. I spent extra time with each of my kids letting them get their thoughts and feelings out. I then noticed after a bit that my trusty, faithful dog was not upstairs with us. I found her in the kitchen with a bag over her head. She'd tried to get some beef jerky out of the bottom of a zip lock bag that was in the pantry and got her head stuck and suffocated.

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

have we lost people as in have people passed on? Here is one of the problems with the internet if one day someone stop posting you really dont know what happen to them did they just leave did something happen .....you try not to worry about that and support everyone here the best you can.

I lost my best friend almost 1 month ago, she went everywhere with me, always protected me, Now she is gone. Still having a hard time dealing with this. The only thing I could suggest is get another dog, But don't forget your old buddy. To me this helped relieve some of the pain. But not a day goes by that I don't think of my old buddy. My old friend is buried in my yard, I put flowers on her grave everyday, and say good morning and Good night to her.

My husband was in a lot of pain over and I am coping with that, much better than with the death of my daughter. I understand what your friend is feeling Neta, I think it is a natural reaction to be angry alot especially when you lose too back to backI went through the anger I was mad at God particularly because he wouldnt tell me why he took them both.

Corey, I'm really sorry about what you're going through. I'm still dealing with my mom's death last year from cancer...she was only 54. There she was sick as hell fighting for her life while I was perfectly healthy & doing everything I could to destroy mine. I was feeling that I was the one that deserved to die. Now I know, that the best thing I can do is become well bc thats what my mom would have wanted---& I know thats what Alexis would have wanted for you.

She had trouble seeing. She slept more than usual, and not always with me as she use to. She loved her new bed which I bought her before Christmas. I knew she was getting older and slowing down but didn't realize she was as old as the vet told me after she died. He said, 11- or 12. I keep asking myself, why didn't I realize this. I cannot conceive being without her, it is incredibly painful.

Also, there is No Doubt in my mind that our loved ones are here with us right now. After I recoup from my surgery next month I'm going to be writing about some more things I've experienced since childhood. I have been trying to decide whether or not to tell about my experience with a Spirit that I am 100% sure was/is my mother, and probably will after I tell about some of my other less personal experiences.

Dealing with death loved one

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