dealing with death in school

Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

I Miscarried In Between My Kids. I Still Remember Seeing The Ultrasound Even Though It Was 6 Years Ago This Month. I Just Wanted To Say As Much As It Hurts Its Important To Find Out The Sex And Name Your Angel. I'm Sorry For Your Loss. It Will Get Easier.

I was a cheerleader with a couple national tidles i am very proud of. In 2006 I had my first sign of symptons of abdominal pain WHILE i was away in florida at a cheerleading competition. I was walking around disney world halfway bent away, couldnt eat anything without it coming back up and the pain lasted nonstop for a week. After that week i havent had any other signs or pain up until october of 2009.

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

I work part time, full time student, have two sons already that are two and one and I'm 24 weeks pregnant I know what its like its rough

Kk, I know exactly what you are going through because I am going through the same thing. I am 60 days out and have had severe panic attacks the past few months. I think the main reason is we are used to dulling our brains and really not dealing with "real life" problems with our brain in it's natural state. We lost a lot of our coping skills by NOT coping the way we should.

I don't know where you are or who these people are, but my child is biracial and noone has EVER told me, her, or her dad anything ridiculous. You are aware that some of our most famous actors, singers, and athletes are biracial right? I never even saw the mixed kids being picked on when I was in school, and I am 32, so that wasn't a couple of years ago. Maybe you should move?

Hi, I'm a 15 year old and I've been dealing with intrusive thoughts for about a year,though mainly homosexual thoughts there have been sacrilegious thoughts also,(I'm a Christian), when I was younger I never liked guys, only girls. These thoughts absolutely disgust me and drive me insane, I had what I think was a anxiety or panic attack a couple of weeks ago, I felt like I was losing my mind, even thoughts of suicide came into my head.

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

If I were you I would try to find a relaxing place and get away from all the negative feed back in your life. That only adds fuel to your misery.. As far as dealing with it alone yeah you could try but I would try to find a group that could relate with me. Once you do that you can talk and people understand exactly what you are saying and going through. I know its tough especially when family says Oh be quiet its in your head!

i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.

And as for the bullying, i am going to see the school principal in the morning and let them know, and then deal with the bus driver. But for now, i told my son i will pick him up from school. This mother i'm dealing with, her children are well known as the ***holes of the school, and she's just sick of everyone harrassing her about the kids, but it wouldn't be happening if she actually did something about it, and disciplined them!

First and foremost, stop berating yourself for feeling so miserable – and for the length of time it is taking you to get over it. It’s only in the movies that people recover so quickly. It’s only in the movies that people just get mad, burn their ex’s clothes, and walk away triumphant. In real life, people pine away for long periods of time, but they are too ashamed to admit to most people.

Look on the internet and find a hotline in your area for something like teens in crisis or just plain crisis hotlines. I hope you can get some help with dealing with and coping with these major life changes. I will be praying for you and I hope I helped a little.

How long will it take you to finish school in Texas? Will you have any help with the children while you are there? These are all things to take into consideration before making such a big move. I really think seeing a psychatrist would be good for you. You need to have an outlet where you can vent to someone that understands. This forum is great for that but sometimes it is nice to have a face to face conversation with someone that can help. Also try keeping a journal.

My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.

I went to therapy and learned how to think through anxiety and relaxation techniques to help me when a panic attack hit. I started dealing with things in life that I had previously brushed under the table, like underlying issues with my siblings, the death of my aunt, general anxitey about life. I also was treated with prozac for a period of time.

One thing i do during school (im still in high school) or just wherever when im getting panicky...I write down the 1st letter of every word im thinking..so to anyone it would look like complete giberish and it only means something to me Also maybe taking up an instrument such as guitar--you can write music or just play whatever you want Another this is excercize...it is proven to help anxiety significantly. Good luck and I hope you learn to cope with this.

We understand what you are dealing with. It DOES get easier in time once things settle down one way or another. Hang in there. We wish you and your son the best. It sounds as if you are doing all of the right things.

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